The Facts of Life and Death

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MUMMY OPENED THE curtains before the alarm went off, and Ruby woke with a hard rock of anxiety in her belly.

The bed went all wonky as Mummy sat down on the edge of it. She didn’t say anything for a minute, then she picked the potato off the chest of drawers.

‘Where’s your little donkey?’

‘I don’t know,’ said Ruby quickly. Lucky was in the bottom drawer. She didn’t know what to do with him. She didn’t want Mummy to see what had happened to him; didn’t want her to start asking questions. Ruby didn’t have answers – not ones she understood.

But Mummy only stroked the potato with her thumb. There was a little bit of white root crawling out at one end, seeking the light like a worm.

‘Ruby, do you know what a whore is?’

Ruby picked at the bed cover.

‘Ruby?’

‘What?’

‘Do you know what—’

‘No,’ said Ruby rudely.

Mummy nodded. ‘You use some bad words in your diary, Rubes.’

Ruby didn’t look at Mummy, but she felt her ears going red. When had Mummy read her diary? Had she taken the nose ring?

‘I don’t know if you understand them, but they’re all bad words about women.’

‘I know,’ said Ruby, although she didn’t. Why couldn’t Mummy just leave it? It wasn’t even her fault. It was Daddy’s fault for using bad words.

‘It’s OK if you don’t know, Rubes. Life’s all about learning. I just don’t want you learning the wrong things, you see, because then you might end up doing the wrong things. Do you understand?’

‘Yes.’

Go away, thought Ruby. Go away.

Mummy nodded and sighed and put the potato back, and Ruby thought she was going to go, but she didn’t.

‘How’s your chest, Rubes?’

She shrugged.

‘You know when it hurts sometimes?’

Ruby nodded cautiously.

‘Well,’ said Mummy slowly, ‘there’s nothing wrong with you, sweetheart, it’s because you’re starting to develop.’

‘What’s develop?’

‘It just means you’re getting little boobies.’

Ruby sat upright in shock. ‘No, I’m not!’

‘It’s nothing to worry about. It’s natural.’

Ruby barely heard the words. A seed of panic germinated rapidly inside her. She’d assumed that the aching in her chest would go away, but boobs were for ever. They never went away. They just got bigger and bigger and more and more in the way. Already she could hardly lie flat on the spider rug.

‘I can’t get boobs!’ she burst out. ‘How will I even read?’

Mummy smiled as if she’d made a joke, but she hadn’t. She hoped Mummy was joking.

But Mummy wasn’t joking. Instead Mummy said, ‘If you’re starting to develop them you’ll probably start your periods soon too. Do you know what periods are, Rubes?’

‘Are they like lessons?’ frowned Ruby. There were periods at school. PE was the worst. The last thing she needed was more lessons; she was rubbish at the ones she already had. Although she couldn’t think of anything worse than growing boobs!

And then Mummy told her the facts of life…

Ruby sat in stunned silence.

The facts of life. The facts of life? That couldn’t be true. She’d never heard of them! Were they even real? Surely nobody could keep that a secret – something so disgusting, so scary? Who else knew about this? Did Miss Sharpe know? Did Adam? How could people know, and still walk around all day as if nothing was wrong?

The boobies and the blood and the boys and the babies.

‘I don’t believe you,’ she said with a trembling lip.

Mummy smiled sympathetically. ‘It’s true, Ruby, but don’t worry about it. These things happen to all girls when they become women, so you have to know about them.’

‘But I don’t want to know about them!’

‘But Ruby,’ said Mummy gently, ‘if girls don’t know the facts of life then they won’t understand about boys and sex and they can get into all kind of trouble.’

‘What kind of trouble?’

‘All sorts of things. Things that can ruin their lives.’

‘What things?’

‘Just… horrible things.’

Ruby’s mind boggled. How could anything be more horrible than the things Mummy had just promised were going to happen to her?

And soon!

It seemed her body had played a mean trick on her. It had started out as one thing and now it was going to change into another thing without even asking.

In the back of her mind, Ruby knew that girls grew up to be women. But for some reason she’d always assumed that she’d grow up to be a cowboy.

Daddy had warned her. He’d warned her about growing up and she hadn’t understood.

Tears pricked at the backs of Ruby’s eyes. She understood now.

She understood that she was never going to ride a bucking bronco, or hitch her pony up outside school, or keep wolves at bay with a fire and a six-gun. Instead she understood that she was going to get boobs and have to sit in a chair to read a book, and paint her nails and kiss boys, and have babies and blood come out of her front bottom.

‘No!’ she said firmly. No!’

Mummy tried to put her arms around her, but Ruby pushed her away.

She didn’t want it. She didn’t want any of it. She didn’t want to be a slut and a slag and a whore. She hated women and she hated Mummy for telling her about it.

No wonder Daddy didn’t love her any more.

Ruby burst into tears.

Alison Trick was stunned.

She’d been nervous about ‘the talk’ for a while now. Her own mother had left it far too late, and she hadn’t wanted to repeat that mistake.

She’d expected Ruby to be embarrassed. Confused. Maybe a bit apprehensive.

But she hadn’t expected hysteria.

She tried to console Ruby, but she wouldn’t stop crying. The little girl wept with every bit of her being, doubling over, holding her tummy in her fists, while tears ran off her face and on to the bed, like rain off old gutters.

Alison felt her own throat ache. ‘Ruby, what’s wrong?’ She rubbed her back and stroked her hair, and bent down so she could peer up into her daughter’s hot little face.

‘Tell me what’s wrong, sweetheart. Please. You’re starting to scare me.’

Ruby shook her head. A couple of times she tried to speak, but she couldn’t. She cried and cried and cried in her mother’s arms, and when she finally got words out, they were so tiny and feeble, and so clotted with snot, that Alison Trick had to put her ear close to Ruby’s lips, to hear what it was that her little girl was trying to say.

‘Don’t tell Daddy.’