ZetaTalk: Being Human

What is going on inside the cult leader's mind as this occurs? This is best understood if one contemplates the family

that every neighborhood knows. The husband insists his wife stay home, and becomes furious when she engages in

social activities outside the home. His boys either become little mirrors of their father or leave home in angry

rebellion. His daughters cannot date, and in all likelihood have been sexually abused in some manner. He chums

around with a group of friends who think nothing is amiss in this setting, and give the frightened family members no

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ZetaTalk: Suicide Cults

this father feels a threat he cannot control? He would rather destroy what he possesses than lose it.

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ZetaTalk: Coupling

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ZetaTalk: Coupling

Note: written by Jul 15, 1995

Entities reincarnate into both sexes in almost all cases. The ability to perform effectively in the male or female role has little to do with any permanent sexual orientation, but rather speaks to the creativity and adaptability of the entity. The most macho male may be in the next life a cloying, clinging female, playing both roles superbly. How is it that some

entities incarnate exclusively into one role or another? If the birthing envoys find a rigidity in the entity and conclude that other lessons should precede addressing the rigidity, this situation may be allowed to continue. A matter of

priorities. Some entities have a greater need for physical control, to be in charge, and when male move forward nicely

with their other lessons. If placed in female form they are distracted endlessly with the control issue. Other entities

have a reluctance to be responsible, the one in charge, and likewise cannot proceed with their lesson if in the male

role. Does homosexuality reflect this reluctance? Without a doubt, but this is not the only cause of homosexuality.

During coupling, a man and a woman bring many elements to the mating. For instance, their physical needs, which

can include not only sexual hungers but shelter and food and comfort. A man weary from work is not inclined to

romance his sweetheart, and a woman worried about being tossed out of the house by the landlord is not going to be

responsive to advances. Taking care of each other's physical needs is the first rule of coupling. In human society men

and women are expected to fulfill different roles, and this goes beyond the inclinations that nature bestows. The male

is stronger, fiercer, more adventurous, and as he is not the one to be pregnant or nursing, not only is best suited to be the hunter or wage earner but in most societies is expected to be thus. Need this be so? Of course not. If the couple

prefers to switch roles, whose business is it but theirs, but these situations, which would be worked out by the couple

in a blink of an eye, become an endless battle when friends, family, church, co-workers, and the rule of law poke their

nose into the marriage. The second rule of coupling is to exclude all but the couple from decisions affecting the couple, excepted only when children join them and are old enough to express concerns. Of course, the council then becomes

larger.

Disappointments often enter into coupling, where she hoped for more companionship, or he more sex, or she more

travel, or he more free time. Successful coupling is not based on the absence of these issues, but on the ability to bring them forward for resolution. Does she sulk, or does he bury himself in the paper? Does she communicate by burning

the toast, and he by failing to take out the garbage? Why not talk about it? The third rule of coupling is to have no

secrets, so that matters can be dealt with frankly. So much better for her to tell him she wishes they could travel

together as she loves sharing discoveries with him, watching his face light up, and for him to tell her he finds a hike

clears his head of troubles so he can really listen to her at supper, as he doesn't want to disappoint her by being

distracted. Or is burnt toast and piles of garbage better?

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ZetaTalk: Homosexuality

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ZetaTalk: Homosexuality

Note: written on Aug 15, 1995

Human parents place a great importance on sexuality, as so much in life keys off one's orientation. Will one have

grandchildren, will the son make the varsity team, will the daughter marry well and be able to provide for her aging

parents - all hinge on the child expressing an interest in the opposite sex, or more correctly, in being comfortable in

one's birth sex. The latter is almost always the cause of homosexuality, but the cause is overlooked as the symptom,

pairing with the same sex, is so distressing to parents. Long before the young child develops the habit of releasing

sexual tension with others of the same sex a struggle has been going on - whether to compete with the parent of the

same sex, whether to assume that role. Where these thoughts go through most young minds, there are other factors at

play. Is the parent of the opposite sex warm and attractive or cold and repellent, is the young child accepted or

rewarded when assuming the role of the birth sex, or punished in some subtle manner.

Classmates also play a role, although a child comfortably grounded within the nuclear family will almost never turn to

homosexuality as a result of bullying by playmates. The opposite is true. Regardless of the school environment, a child

distressed within the nuclear family by the concept of stepping into the shoes that the birth sex requires will almost

never put these concerns aside when away from home.

Are homosexuals born? No, although the preferences of the incarnating spirit play a small role. Physical differences

pointed to as a cause are a reaction, as the degree to which the mind can influence physical development is little

understood. As with any habit that humans develop, change requires that the cause, and not the symptom, be

examined. It does little good to berate homosexuals, who have not so much chosen their lifestyle as been driven to it,

and at a very young age. The toddler, or pre-school child, is scarcely making an intellectual choice. They are avoiding

distress, punishment, and in many cases what they see as crushing and oppressive situations, or even, in their childish

eyes, as possible death. Psychiatrists are quite aware of these scenarios, and explain them well.

Do we, the Zetas, have homosexuals among us? Most certainly, as the dramas that incarnation presents are the same in

all life forms. The sex drive will take a direction, and habits formed young are hard to break. It's as simple as that. Do we approve? Let's put it this way - we do not disapprove. We, in the Service-to-Other, spend our time caring for, not

berating, each other.

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ZetaTalk: Those Who Mourn

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ZetaTalk: Those Who Mourn

Note: written by Jul 15, 1995

One does not let go of a loved one just because they have died. They live still, in the hearts and minds of those who

remember, miss them, or have unfinished business. Grief is most acute where the loved one filled a void not yet filled.

The side of the bed, where once a warm body breathed and snored, now cold and empty. No one to talk to, share with,

fuss over. Shattered plans, with the one, perhaps, that was to make them possible now gone. The grieving one feels

bereft, deserted, unloved and frightened. They must start anew on many fronts, but how? So many comforts, assumed

to be solid, now vaporized. Some ache for a long time, and if the ache cannot be filled, many follow the beloved into

death. A type of suicide, as chronic grief kills.

Is this good? Your therapists tell you it is important to grieve, to get it out and dispel it, and they are, of course,

correct. Repressed emotions poison. It is the next stage that is most often neglected - rebuilding a life. The dutiful wife, placing flowers on a grave year after year, has not filled her life with the care of others. Are there no others about who need her care? She has not looked, or noticed. Refusal to rebuild a life is seldom what it is purported to be - devotion.

This is a cover for what is really going on - reluctance and denial. Rebuilding means stepping into new territory,

testing and proving oneself, taking risks, facing rebuffs, getting burned. So much easier to take flowers to the grave

and get admiring nods and smiles from the community. So devoted.

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ZetaTalk: Being Human

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ZetaTalk: Fight or Flight

ZetaTalk: Repressed Emotions

ZetaTalk: Stress Diseases

ZetaTalk: Escape Reality

ZetaTalk: Autism Rise

ZetaTalk: Psychosis

ZetaTalk: Anxiety

ZetaTalk: Denial

ZetaTalk: Bad News

ZetaTalk: Certainty

ZetaTalk: Answers

ZetaTalk: The Insecure

ZetaTalk: Disaster Reactions

ZetaTalk: Life: Downside Up

ZetaTalk: When Things Go Wrong

ZetaTalk: Leadership, Earned

ZetaTalk: Pending Partners

ZetaTalk: Soul Personalities

ZetaTalk: Physical Fitness

ZetaTalk: Walking Erect

ZetaTalk: Auras

ZetaTalk: Curing Cancer

ZetaTalk: Alzheimers

ZetaTalk: Anorexia

ZetaTalk: Pain

ZetaTalk: Grieving

ZetaTalk: Addictions

ZetaTalk: Music

ZetaTalk: Getting High

ZetaTalk: Junk Food

ZetaTalk: Pets

ZetaTalk: Chess Matches

ZetaTalk: Self Respect

ZetaTalk: Spanking

ZetaTalk: Missing Children

ZetaTalk: Violent Games

ZetaTalk: Fear

ZetaTalk: Dangers

ZetaTalk: Self Destructive

ZetaTalk: Killer Instinct

ZetaTalk: The Grudge

ZetaTalk: Mother and Child

ZetaTalk: JonBenet Ramsey

ZetaTalk: Humor

ZetaTalk: Conspiracies

ZetaTalk: Ukraine Plague

ZetaTalk: Abortion

ZetaTalk: Suicide

ZetaTalk: Vegetarian

ZetaTalk: Reverence for Life

ZetaTalk: Indestructible Soul

ZetaTalk: Chakras

ZetaTalk: Reincarnation

ZetaTalk: Past Lives

ZetaTalk: Near Death Experience

ZetaTalk: Ghosts

ZetaTalk: Out-Of- Body

ZetaTalk: Walk-in

ZetaTalk: Star Child

ZetaTalk: Aware

ZetaTalk: Star Children Examples

ZetaTalk: Possession

ZetaTalk: Body Senses

ZetaTalk: Star Seeded

ZetaTalk: Meditation

ZetaTalk: Shamanism

ZetaTalk: Carlos Castaneda

ZetaTalk: Premonitions

ZetaTalk: Poltergeist

ZetaTalk: Hauntings

ZetaTalk: Psychics

ZetaTalk: Telepathy

ZetaTalk: Sleep

ZetaTalk: Dreams

ZetaTalk: Faith Healers

ZetaTalk: Yin-Yang

ZetaTalk: Karma

ZetaTalk: Archetypes

ZetaTalk: Werewolves

ZetaTalk: Cultural Influences

ZetaTalk: Heaven's Gate

ZetaTalk: Right Religion

ZetaTalk: Holy Wars

ZetaTalk: Racial Hatred

ZetaTalk: United Nations

ZetaTalk: Capitalism

ZetaTalk: Scientific Theories

ZetaTalk: Human Infallibility

ZetaTalk: Independent Thinking

ZetaTalk: Context

ZetaTalk: Event Timing

ZetaTalk: Categorization

ZetaTalk: Best Intentions

ZetaTalk: Hippocratic Oath

ZetaTalk: Career Choices

ZetaTalk: Status Symbols

ZetaTalk: Get Rich Quick

ZetaTalk: Politics

ZetaTalk: Taking Responsibility

ZetaTalk: Commitments

ZetaTalk: Scapegoats

ZetaTalk: Holocaust Denial

ZetaTalk: Forgiving

ZetaTalk: Multiple Personality

ZetaTalk: Dowsing

ZetaTalk: Gifted Autistics

ZetaTalk: Suicide Cults

ZetaTalk: Coupling

ZetaTalk: Homosexuality

ZetaTalk: Those Who Mourn