The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play, and the Erotic Edge

RESOURCE GUIDE

Note: You can find a much more extensive version of this resource guide on the book’s website, UltimateGuideToKink.com.

Becoming a Slave, by Jack Rinella (Chicago: Rinella Editorial Services, 2005).

The Compleat Slave: Creating and Living an Erotic Dominant /Submissive Lifestyle, by Jack Rinella (Los Angeles: Daedalus Publishing, 1992).

Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission, by Gloria Brame and William Brame (New York: Villard, 1996).

Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment, by Hardy Haberman (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2001).

Leatherfolk: Radical Sex, People, Politics, edited by Mark Thompson (Los Angeles: Daedalus Publishing, 2004).

Leathersex: A Guide for the Curious Outsider and the Serious Player, by Joseph Bean (Los Angeles: Daedalus Publishing, 1994).

The Marketplace (3rd ed.), by Laura Antoniou (Cambridge, MA: Circlet Press, 2010).

The Master’s Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance, by Jack Rinella (Los Angeles: Daedalus Publishing, 1994).

Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual, by Christina Abernathey (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 1996).

The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl’s Guide to Female Dominance, by Mistress Lorelei (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2000).

The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2001).

The New Topping Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2003).

Partners in Power: Living in Kinky Relationships, by Jack Rinella (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2003).

Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond, by Lee Harrington (Lulu.com, 2010).

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism, by Philip Miller and Molly Devon (Fairfield, CT: Mystic Rose Books, 1995).

The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage, by Midori (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2002).

Sensuous Magic: A Guide for Adventurous Couples, by Patrick Califia (Berkeley: Cleis Press, 2002).

Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé, by Lee Harrington (Brooklyn, NY: Mystic Productions Press, 2007).

The Slave (3rd ed.), by Laura Antoniou (Cambridge, MA: Circlet Press, 2011).

SM 101: A Realistic Introduction, by Jay Wiseman (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 1998).

The Toybag Guide to Age Play, by Lee Harrington (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2008).

The Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps, by Jack Rinella (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2004).

The Toybag Guide to Foot and Shoe Worship, by Midori (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2004).

The Toybag Guide to Playing with Taboo, by Mollena Williams (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2004).

Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage, by Two Knotty Boys (San Francisco: Green Candy Press, 2006).

Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century, by Barbara Carrellas (Berkeley, CA: Celestial Arts/Ten Speed Press, 2007).

When Someone You Love Is Kinky, by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2000).

Midori’s Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage, directed by Tristan Taormino (Vivid-Ed, 2009).

Nina Hartley’s Guide Series. Nina Hartley hosts and Ernest Greene directs this DVD series covering domination, submission, bondage sex, spanking, and more (Adam and Eve, 2002–2008).

Penny Flame’s Expert Guide to Rough Sex, directed by Tristan Taormino (Vivid-Ed, 2009).

The S/M Arts Collection: The Pain Game & Tie Me Up, hosted by Cleo Dubois (Academy of S/M Arts, 2002).

The SM Tech Educational Series. DVDs with accompanying short books, covering topics like flogging, spanking, bondage, and CBT and featuring educators Lolita Wolf, Joseph Bean, and Scott Smith (Nazca Plains Corporation, thenazcaplainscorp.com).

Carter-Johnson Library, leatherlibrary.org

Leather Archives & Museum, leatherarchives.org

Masters and slaves Together International (MAsT), mast.net

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, ncsfreedom.org

National Leather Association-International, nla-i.com

Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance, woodhullalliance.org

Note: Many of these organizations also hold annual events; see their websites for more information.

Adventures in Sexuality, Columbus, OH, adventuresinsexu-ality.org

Arizona Power Exchange, Phoenix, AZ, arizonapowerex-change.org

Black Rose, Washington, DC, br.org

The Center for Sex Positive Culture, Seattle, WA, sexpositive-culture.org

Charlotte Area Power Exchange (CAPEX), Charlotte, NC, capex.info

Chicago Hellfire Club, Chicago, IL, hellfire13.org

The Exiles, San Francisco, CA, theexiles.org

The Group With No Name, Austin, TX, gwnn.net

LA-RAWW, Los Angeles, CA, laraww.com

Lesbian Sex Mafia, New York, NY, lesbiansexmafia.org

LRA, Chicago, IL, lra-chicago.org

MOB, Boston, MA, mobnewengland.org

National Leather Association (has local chapters in Arkansas, Atlanta, Colorado, Columbus, Central Florida, Dallas, Houston, Indianapolis, Oklahoma City, Northern Nevada, and Philadelphia), nla-i.com

New England Leather Alliance, Boston, MA, nelaonline.org

Portland Leather Alliance, Portland, OR, portlandleather.org

Society of Janus, San Francisco, CA, soj.org

TES, New York, NY, tes.org

Beat Me in St. Louis, St. Louis, MO, beatmeinstl.com

Beyond Leather, Fort Lauderdale, FL, beyondleather.net

Beyond Vanilla, Dallas TX, beyondvanilla.org

Black Beat, Baltimore, MD, blackbeatinc.org

Desire, Palm Springs, CA, desireleatherwomen.com

Fetish Fair Fleamarket, Boston, MA, fetishfairfleamarket.com

Folsom Fringe, San Jose, CA, folsomfringe.com

Great Lakes Leather Alliance Weekend, Indianapolis, IN, greatlakesleather.org

International Ms. Leather, San Francisco, CA, imsl.org

International Mr. Leather, Chicago, IL, imrl.com

Kinkfest, Portland, OR, kinkfest.org

Kinky Kollege, Chicago, IL, kinkycollege.com

Leather Leadership Conference, leatherleader.org

Master/slave Conference, Washington, DC, masterslavecon-ference.org

South Plains Leatherfest, Dallas, TX, southplainsleatherfest.com

Southeast Leatherfest, Atlanta, GA, seleatherfest.com

Shibaricon, Chicago, IL, shibaricon.com

Thunder in the Mountains, Denver, CO, thunderinthemoun-tains.com

Tribal Fire, Oklahoma City, OK, tribalfireokc.com

Twisted Tryst, various locations, twistedtryst.com

BDSM Event Page, thebdsmeventspage.com

FetLife, fetlife.com

Hanky Code, leathernjonline.com/hanky.htm

Kink Academy, kinkacademy.com

Kink Aware Professionals, https://ncsfreedom.org/resources/kink-aware-professionals-directory/kap-directory-homepage.html