Aquarium

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My mother that evening was tired. She lay on the couch and I snugged against her and we watched TV, mostly commercials. Back in our aquarium, as territorial and easily found as any fish. We had only four places to hide in this tank: the couch, the bed, the table, and the bathroom. If you checked those four spots, you’d always find us. The bare white walls gone blue in the light from the TV, no different from glass. A ceiling clamped down above so we couldn’t jump out and escape. Sound of a filter and pump running, the heating unit, keeping us at the right temperature. The only question was who was outside, looking in.

Are you going to marry Steve?

Whoa. Slow down there, cowgirl.

But you like him?

Yes. Yes I do.

So why not marry him?

I turned to look at my mother, and she was studying me, too.

You’re wanting a father?

I didn’t answer. We had talked about this before, and I always got in trouble somehow.

Look, she said. There’s something that adults call expectations, which means that we never get what we want and in fact we don’t get it because we want it. So the way it works is that if I really want Steve, if I want to marry him, then he runs away. If I don’t want him, then he’ll keep coming around and we won’t be able to get rid of him. And this will be even more true for you, because being a father is a much bigger thing than being a husband. So if you want Steve to be your father, he’ll run. But if you can just enjoy Steve because he’s fun, maybe he’ll stick around for a bit.

That doesn’t make any sense.

That’s true. It doesn’t make any sense. Welcome to the adult world, coming soon. I work so I can work more. I try not to want anything so maybe I’ll get something. I starve so I can be less and more. I try to be free so I can be alone. And there’s no point to any of it. They left out that part.

Who’s they?

The evil little gremlins who run the world. Who knows. Don’t make me talk about this stuff. Just watch TV. I’m tired.

Sorry.

It’s okay. It’s not your fault. Don’t let me ever make you feel that any of the problems in my life are your fault. They’re not.

Okay.

My mother rarely spoke like this. I wanted to fix the world for her, make it all make sense. She was good and strong and should have been given everything. She kissed the top of my head and pulled me closer and I burrowed in.

I didn’t watch the TV. I watched the walls, the flickering light. Somehow all colors became shades of blue, as if the air really were water. And why weren’t all fish blue, in a range dimming from white-blue to blue-black as they went deeper? Why were any fish bright yellow, or red? They were all hiding, so why these bright flashes and patterns?

Where did you grow up?

Caitlin. You know I don’t like to think about any of it.

But you never say anything.

That’s right.

But it was here in Seattle?

Yes.

And was it a room like this?

No. I mean maybe it was the same kind of room, but what matters is who’s in a room, or who’s not there, not the room itself. Although the room itself wasn’t anything like this either.

Well tell me.

No.

Why not?

Because it’s enough that they wrecked my life. They don’t get to touch yours.

But what happened?

Caitlin.

Okay.

We had no family. No one at all. Everyone at school had a family. They didn’t have fathers, many of them, but they did have aunts and uncles and grandparents and cousins. And almost all fish were in more than pairs. Although as I thought about it, many of the fish in the aquarium were in fact in pairs or alone, and how could that be? It couldn’t be like that in the ocean.

The entire planet one ocean. I liked to think about this. When I went to sleep each night, I imagined myself at the bottom, thousands of feet down, the weight of all that water but I was gliding just above ground, something like a manta ray, flying soundless and weightless over endless plains that fell away into deep canyons of darker black and then rose up in spires and new plateaus, and I could be anywhere in this world, off Mexico or Guam or under the Arctic or all the way to Africa, all in the one element, all home, shadows on all sides of me gliding also, great wings without sound or sight but felt and known.

Mr. Gustafson had us all preparing for Christmas. There was a great confusion about this, because we were also preparing for Hanukkah and Chinese New Year and Diwali and something in Korea, but the dates weren’t the same and we all knew we were really preparing for Christmas without being able to say it. Everything was red and green and said Happy Holidays. This was our last year of grades that didn’t matter, so we were still free to work on art projects.

I was working on a paper-mache reindeer with Shalini, who was from New Delhi, so we were making it a Diwali reindeer, even though Diwali had already passed a month ago on November 3. It was a different date every year according to the moon.

Add more water to the paste, Shalini said. She was bossy.

Our reindeer was a goddess named Lakshmi Rudolph and wore a hat we were going to paint gold. She was going to make everyone rich and beautiful whether the other reindeer allowed it or not. She would still have a red nose but maybe not any horns, which were difficult anyway in paper-mache.

Shalini had a scarf that was gold, and I was intensely jealous. She had delicious lunches in Tupperware from home, but I had to eat the school lunch. Tater tots almost every day, steamed vegetables, and some kind of meat with gravy, even though I didn’t like meat. I was going to be a vegetarian like Shalini when I got older, and I never ate fish.

Shalini was also allowed to wear perfume, which my mother said was ridiculous for twelve-year-olds.

Let me smell your wrists, I said.

You always ask for that.

I like it.

She lifted a wrist for me. Her smooth, beautiful brown arm, and I put my nose against her wrist and closed my eyes and breathed in another world. Things I couldn’t name, spicy and sweet.

Your mother should let you wear perfume.

She won’t.

Let’s keep moving, Caitlin and Shalini, Mr. Gustafson said. Rudolph has no legs.

Lakshmi Rudolph, I said, but Mr. Gustafson had already moved on to the sleigh.

Shalini scrunched her nose to make a pig face. She always said Mr. Gustafson looked like a pig, and it’s true the end of his nose did seem cut short a bit, so you could see the dark holes of his nostrils. But every teacher in school was named after an animal. Mr. Callahan was named badger, Miss Martinez was called turtle. None of them were named after fish.

Lakshmi Rudolph had a thin chest still, and bare wire legs, but her head and crown looked good, and her butt and small tail, which we were going to paint white at the tip. Shalini was working on the ribs.

Tell me more about your family, I said.

You always ask about my family.

Tell me more about the wedding, with two elephants and many days and hundreds of people.

That was in India. You should come to my house for a sleepover.

Yay!

Okay. I’ll ask my mother.