Bridesmaids in ancient Roman times were the first to wear identical gowns—identical not only to one another’s but to the bride’s as well. This was in an attempt to trick demons from taking the bride’s soul prior to her wedding night. Any woman who’d protected three brides from evil spirits was considered too impure to marry herself, having absorbed too much black magic. This is where the expression “three times a bridesmaid, never a bride” comes from.
So they weren’t making it up about the three times a bridesmaid thing! And you just thought they were talking about your aunt Judy.
Tip to Avoid a Wedding Day Disaster
You love your friends because of their unique personalities. Well, their bodies are unique too. So don’t squeeze your bridesmaids into identical gowns. They’ll hate it, and if you’re really their friend, you should hate that they hate it. Choose a shade that will flatter all of them, and let them each choose a dress in that color that they like, one that they’ll really wear again.
So what if they won’t all look exactly the same? It’s them you love, not their look, right?
LIZZIE NICHOLS DESIGNS™