Між двох вогнів. Чому ми досі обираємо між роботою та сім’єю

5

«Gender and Generation in the Workplace,» Families and Work Institute, 2004, familiesandwork .org/downloads/GenerationandGender.pdf; Jane Leber Herr and Catherine Wolfram, «Work Environment and ‘Opt-Out’ Rates at Motherhood Across High-Education Career Paths,» National Bureau of Economic Research Working Paper Series, February 2009, nber.org/papers/w14717.pdf.

6

імейл до Анни-Марі Слотер, 3 грудня 2012.

7

Karen Z. Kramer, Erin L. Kelly, and Jan B. McCulloch, «Stay-at-Home Fathers: De nition and Characteristics Based on 34 Years of CPS Data,» Journal of Family Issues, September 12, 2013, j .sagepub.com/content/early/2013/09/ 09/0192513X13502479.abstract?papetoc.

8

Lia Macko and Kerry Rubin, Midlife Crisis at 30: How the Stakes Have Changed for a New Generation—And What to Do About It (Emmaus, PA: Rodale, 2004), p. 10.

9

«Women in Law in Canada and the U.S.,» Catalyst, March 11, 2013, catalyst.org/knowledge/ women-law-us.

10

Martha S. West and John W. Curtis, «AAUP Faculty Gender Equity Indicators 2006,» American Association of University Professors, 2006, aaup.org/NR/rdonlyres/63396944-44BE-4ABA-9815-5792D93856F1/0/AAUPGenderEquityIndicators2006.pdf.

11

«The Surgical Workforce in the United States: Pro le and Recent Trends,» American College of Surgeons Health Policy Research Institute, April 2010, acshpri.org/ documents/ACSHPRI_Surgical_Workforce_in_US_apr2010.pdf.

12

Elena Moya, «Glass Ceiling Is Thicker in Investment Banking than in Other Areas of Finance,» Financial News, March 28, 2011, e nancialnews.com/ story/2011-03-28/glass-ceiling-is-thicker-in-investment-banking-than-in-other-areas-of- nance?ea9c8a2de0ee111045601ab04d 673622.

13

Linda Basch and Jacki Zehner, «Women in Fund Management,» National Council for Research on Women, June 2009, regender.org/sites/ ncrw.org/ les/wifm_report.pdf.

14

Liana Christin Landivar, «Disparities in STEM Employment by Sex, Race and Hispanic Origin,» American Community Survey Reports, September 2013, census.gov/prod/2013pubs/acs-24.pdf.

15

Erin Carlyle, «The World’s Richest Women,» Forbes, March 7, 2012, forbes.com/sites/ erincarlyle/2012/03/07/theworlds-richest-women.

16

Martin E. Seligman, Learned Optimism: How to Change Your Mind and Your Life (New York: Vintage, 2011), eBook, pp. 144—72.

17

Sheryl Sandberg, Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead (New York: Knopf, 2013), p. 8.

18

Katty Kay and Claire Shipman, The Con dence Code: The Science and Art of Self-Assurance—What Women Should Know (New York: HarperCollins, 2014), p. xviii.

19

імейл до Анни-Марі Слотер, 3 січня 2013.

20

Pamela Stone, Opting Out? Why Women Really Quit Careers and Head Home (Berkeley: University of California Press, 2007), p. 115.

21

Carey Goldberg, «Sheryl Sandberg’s Biggest Blind Spot,» WBUR, April 2, 2013, cognoscenti.wbur.org/2013/04/02/lean-in-carey-goldberg.

22

імейл до Анни-Марі Слотер, 22 січня 2012.

23

Maria Shriver and the Center for American Progress, «A Woman’s Nation Pushes Back from the Brink: Executive Summary,» The Shriver Report, January 12, 2014, shriverreport.org/a-womans-nation-pushes-back-from-the-brink-executive-summary-maria-shriver.

24

«Marriage and Divorce: Patterns by Gender, Race, and Educational Attainment,» Monthly Labor Review, October 2013, bls.gov/opub/mlr/2013/article/marriage-and-divorce-patterns-by-gender-race-and-educational-attainment.htm.

25

Kenneth A. Couch, Christopher R. Tamborini, Gayle Reznik, and John W. R. Phillips, «Divorce, Women’s Earnings, and Retirement over the Life Course,» chapter 8 in K. Couch, M. C. Daly, and J. Zissimopoulos, eds., Lifecycle Events and Their Consequences: Job Loss, Family Change, and Declines in Health (Stanford, CA: Stanford University Press, 2013), pp. 133—57.

26

Robyn Ely, Pamela Stone, and Colleen Ammerman, «Rethinking What You ‘Know’ About High-Achieving Women,» Harvard Business Review, December 2014, hbr.org/2014/12/rethink-what-you-know-about-high-achieving-women.

27

на Kim Parker and Wendy Wang, «Modern Parenthood,» Pew Research Center Social and Demographic Trends, March 14, 2013, pewsocialtrends.org/2013/ 03/14/modern-parenthood-roles-of-moms-and-dads-converge-as-they-balance-work-and-family.

28

у Carol Hymowitz, «Behind Every Great Woman,» Bloomberg Businessweek, January 4, 2012, businessweek.com/magazine/behind-every-great-woman-01042012.html.

29

Andrea Shalal-Esa, «Hewson’s Long Lockheed Journey Ends at the Top,» Reuters, November 9, 2012, reuters .com/article/2012/11/10/us-lockheed-hewson-idUSBRE8A904 T20121110.

30

Marjorie Censer, «After Nearly 30 Years with Lockheed, Hewson Is Named Chief Executive,» Washington Post, November 13, 2012, washingtonpost.com/ business/capitalbusiness/after-nearly-30-years-with-lockheed-hewson-is-named-chief-executive/2012/11/13/173cc04a-2cdc-11e2-a99d-5c4203af7b7a_story.html.

31

Doug Cameron and Joann S. Lublin, «Vaulted to Top at Lockheed, and Ready to Navigate Cliff,» Wall Street Journal, November 11, 2012, online.wsj.com/news/articles/ SB10001424127887324439804578113250113672078.

32

Rebecca Hughes Parker, «The Unsteady Rise of the Power Mom and the Diapering Dad,»
April 12, 2013, rebeccahughesparker.com/2013/04/12/the-unsteady-rise-of-the-power-mom-and-the-diapering-dad (originally posted at Professionelle.me as part of the Professionelle Talks series in May 2013).

33

«Makers: Women Who Make America, Abby Pogrebin,» PBS, February 26, 2013, video.pbs.org/ video/2331420920.

34

Jill R. Aitoro, «Marillyn Hewson: Inside Out,» Washington Business Journal, February 1, 2013, bizjournals.com/washington/print-edition/2013/02/01/ marillyn-hewson-inside-out.html?page=2.

35

Timothy L. O’Brien, «Why Do So Few Women Reach the Top of Big Law Firms?,» New York Times, March 19, 2006, nytimes.com/2006/03/19/business/yourmoney/19law.html.

36

«Committee Opinion: Female Age-Related Fertility Decline,» American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, March 2014, acog.org/Resources-And-Publications/ Committee-Opinions/Committee-on-Gynecologic-Practice/ Female-Age-Related-Fertility-Decline.

37

у Sylvia Ann Hewlett, Creating a Life: Professional Women and the Quest for Children (New York: Talk Miramax, 2002), p. 33.

38

Lily Ledbetter, with Lanier Scott Isom, Grace and Grit: My Fight for Equal Pay and Fairness at Goodyear and Beyond (New York: Crown, 2012), pp. 6—7.

39

«Highlights of Women’s Earnings in 2013,» U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, Report 1051, December 2014, bls.gov/opub/reports/cps/highlights-of-womens-earnings-in-2013.pdf.

40

імейл до Анни-Марі Слотер, 20 липня 2012.

41

Jennifer L. Berdahl, Vicki J. Magley, and C. R. Waldo, «The Sexual Harassment of Men? Exploring the Concept with Theory and Data,» Psychology of Women Quarterly, 20 (1996): 527—47.

42

Joan C. William, «The Daddy Dilemma: Why Men Face a ‘Flexibility Stigma’ at Work,» Washington Post, February 11, 2013, washingtonpost.com/national/on-leadership/ the-daddy-dilemma-why-men-face-a-exibility-stigma-at-work/ 2013/02/11/58350f4e-7462-11e2-aa12-e6cf1d31106b_story.html.

43

Там же.
40 Jennifer L. Berdahl and Sue H. Moon, «Worker Mistreatment of Middle Class Workers Based on Sex, Parenthood, and Caregiving,» Journal of Social Issues 69 (2013): 341—66.

44

Joan C.Williams, Mary Blair-Loy, and Jennifer L. Berdahl, «Cultural Schemas, Social Class, and the Flexibility Stigma,» Journal of Social Issues 69 (2013): 209—34.

45

у Claire Cain Miller, «Paternity Leave: The Rewards and the Remaining Stigma,» New York Times, November 7, 2014, nytimes.com/2014/11/09/upshot/paternity-leave-the-rewards-and-the-remaining-stigma.html.

46

у Bates v. 84 Lumber Co., No. 05-5554 (6th Cir. 2006).

47

Email to AnneMarie Slaughter, July 13, 2012.

48

Andrew Cohen, « ‘Having It All’? How About: ‘Doing the Best I Can’?,» Atlantic, June 27, 2012, theatlantic.com/business/archive/2012/06/having-it-all-how-about-doing-the-best-i-can/258898.

49

Guy Friddell, Colgate Darden: Conversations with Guy Friddell (Charlottesville, VA: University Press of Virginia, 1978), p. 100.

50

Tara Siegel Bernard, «In Paid Family Leave, U.S. Trails Most of the Globe,» New York Times, February 22, 2013, nytimes.com/2013/02/23/yourmoney/us-trails-much-of-theworld-in-providing-paidfamily-leave.html.

51

«Fact Sheet #28: The Family and Medical Leave Act,» U.S. Department of Labor, Wage and Hours Division, revised 2012, dol.gov/whd/regs/compliance/whdfs28.pdf.

52

Там же.

53

Stephanie Pappas, «Why Gay Parents May Be the Best Parents,» LiveScience, January 15, 2012, livescience.com/17913-advantages-gay-parents.html.

54

Frank Ligtvoet, «The Misnomer of ‘Motherless’ Parenting,» June 22, 2013, nytimes.com/2013/06/23/opinion/sunday/the-misnomer-of-motherless-parenting.html.

55

«Family Stability May Be More Crucial than Two Parents for Child Success,» Research News, Ohio State University, August 31, 2009, researchnews.osu.edu/ archive/familystability.htm.

56

«The First Eight Years: Giving Kids a Foundation for Lifetime Success,» Annie E. Casey Foundation, December 2, 2013, aecf.org//media/Pubs/Initiatives/KIDS %20COUNT/F/FirstEightYears/AECFTheFirstEightYears2013 .pdf.

57

I Timothy 5:8, Bible, King James Version (New York: Thomas Nelson Publishers, 1971).

58

Verse 4:34, «The Women,» English translation, Quranic Arabic Corpus, corpus.quran.com/translation .jsp?chapter=4&verse=34.

59

Gretchen Livingston, «Growing Number of Dads Home with the Kids; Chapter 2: Why Are Dads Staying Home?,» Pew Research Center Social and Demographic Trends, June 5, 2014, pewsocialtrends.org/2014/06/05/chapter-2-why-are-dads-staying-home.

60

Wendy Wang, Kim Parker, and Paul Taylor, «Breadwinner Moms,» Pew Research Center Social and Demographic Trends, May 29, 2013, pewsocialtrends.org/ 2013/05/29/breadwinner-moms/2.

61

Paul Taylor, ed., «The Decline of Marriage and Rise of New Families,» Pew Research Center Social and Demographic Trends, November 18, 2010, pewsocialtrends.org/ les/2010/11/pewsocial-trends-2010-families.pdf.

62

Liza Mundy, The Richer Sex: How the New Majority of Female Breadwinners Is Transforming Sex, Love and Family (New York: Simon & Schuster, 2012); Hanna Rosin, The End of Men: And the Rise of Women (New York: Riverhead, 2012).

63

«United States: The Rich and the Rest,» Economist, October 13, 2012, economist.com/node/21564418.

64

Elizabeth Warren and Amelia Warren Tyagi, The Two-Income Trap: Why Middle-Class Parents Are Going Broke (New York: Basic Books, 2004).

65

Bradford Plumer, «The Two-Income Trap,» Mother Jones, November 8, 2004, motherjones .com/politics/2004/11/two-income-trap.

66

Dylan Matthews, «Wages Aren’t Stagnating, They’re Plummeting,» Washington Post, July 31, 2012, washingtonpost.com/blogs/wonkblog/wp/2012/07/31/wages-arent-stagnating-theyre-plummeting.

67

Eileen Patten and Kim Parker, «A Gender Reversal on Career Aspirations,» Pew Research Center Social and Demographic Trends, April 19, 2012, pewsocialtrends.org/2012/04/19/a-gender-reversal-on-career-aspirations.

68

«Read an Excerpt of Liza Mundy’s ‘The Richer Sex,’ « ABC News, January 9, 2014, abcnews.go.com/blogs/politics/2014/01/read-an-excerpt-of-liza-mundys-the-richer-sex.

69

Liza Mundy, «Daddy Track: The Case for Paternity Leave,» Atlantic, January/February 2014, theatlantic .com/magazine/archive/2014/01/the-daddy-track/355746/2.

70

Деякі з цих книг підтримують ідею балансу, інші — відкидають її, але все одно обіцяють щастя, припускаючи, що ідея є корисною. See Sharon Meers and Joanna Strober, Getting to 50/50: How Working Parents Can Have It All (Berkeley: Cleis Press, 2013); A. Roger Merrill and Rebecca R. Merrill, Life Matters: Creating a Dynamic Balance of Work, Family, Time, & Money (New York: McGraw-Hill, 2003); Teresa A. Taylor, The Balance Myth: Rethinking WorkLife Success (Austin: Greenleaf Book Group Press, 2013); Matthew Kelly, Off Balance: Getting Beyond the WorkLife Balance Myth to Personal and Professional Satisfaction (New York: Hudson Street Press, 2011); Cali Williams Yost, Work + Life: Finding the Fit That’s Right for You (New York: Riverhead, 2004); and Joan Blades and Nanette Fondas, The Custom-Fit Workplace: Choose When, Where, and How to Work and Boost Your Bottom Line (San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 2010).

71

Kiera Butler, Dave Gilson, Josh Harkinson, Andy Kroll, and Laura McClure, «Harrowing, Heartbreaking Tales of Overworked Americans,» Mother Jones, July/August 2011, motherjones.com/politics/2011/06/stories-overworked-americans.

72

«Stress in America: Paying with Our Health,» American Psychological Association, February 4, 2015, apa.org/news/press/releases/stress/2014/stress-report.pdf.

73

«Adult Labor and Working Conditions: Rankings,» World Policy Forum, 2015, worldpolicyforum.org/topics/adult-labor-andworking-conditions/ rankings.

74

Irene Padavic, Robin Ely, and Erin Reid, «The Work-Family Narrative as a Social Defense: Explaining the Persistence of Gender Inequality in Organizations,» Harvard Business School Working Paper, March 2015.

75

Там же.

76

у «Highlights of Women’s 
Earnings in 2013,» U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, Report 1051, December 2014, bls.gov/opub/reports/cps/highlights-of-womens-earnings-in-2013.pdf.

77

Michelle J. Budig, Joya Misra, and Irene Boeckmann, «The Motherhood Penalty in Cross-National Perspective: The Importance of Work-Family Policies and Cultural Attitudes,» Social Politics: International Studies in Gender, State & Society 19, no. 2 (2012): 163—93.

78

Mark Perry and Andrew G. Biggs, «The ‘77 Cents on the Dollar’ Myth About Women’s Pay,» Wall Street Journal, April 7, 2014, wsj.com/articles/SB10001424052 702303532704579483752909957472.

79

Claire Cain Miller, «The Upshot: The Motherhood Penalty vs. the Fatherhood Bonus,» New York Times, September 6, 2014, nytimes.com/2014/09/07/upshot/a-child-helps-your-career-if-youre-a-man.html.

80

Stephanie Coontz, «Progress at Work, but Mothers Still Pay a Price,» New York Times, June 9, 2013, nytimes.com/2013/06/09/opinion/sunday/coontz-richer-childless-women-are-making-the-gains.html; Kristin Rowe-Finkbeiner, «The Real Feminist Nightmare,» Politico, November 25, 2013, politico.com/magazine/story/2013/11/thereal-feminist-nightmare-not-michelle-obama-100339.html# .VWX-Y0ZBEnM.

81

54 On Pay Gap, Millennial Women Near Parity—for Now,» Pew Research Center Social and Demographic Trends, December 11, 2013, pewsocialtrends.org/2013/12/11/on-pay-gap-millennial-women-near-parity-for-now.

82

Там же.

83

Wendy Wang, Kim Parker, and Paul Taylor, «Breadwinner Moms,» Pew Research Center Social and Demographic Trends, May 29, 2013, pewsocialtrends.org/2013/05/29/breadwinner-moms.

84

Kim Parker and Wendy Wang, «Modern Parenthood,» Pew Research Center Social and Demographic Trends, March 2013, pewsocialtrends .org/2013/03/14/modern-parenthood-roles-of-moms-and-dads-converge-as-they-balance-work-and-family.

85

«Family Caregiving: The Facts,» Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, September 2011, cdc.gov/aging/caregiving/facts.htm.

86

Amanda Marcotte, «Wendy Davis’ Daughters: Our Mom Did a Great Job,» Slate, January 21, 2014, slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2014/01/28/was_wendy_davis_a_bad motherbecause_her_husband_contributed_a_lot_of_childcare.html.

87

Manny Fernandez and Laurie Goodstein, «Life Story of Wendy Davis Swings from Strength to Flash Point in Texas Campaign,» New York Times, January 29, 2014, nytimes.com/2014/01/30/us/texas-democrat-defends-back-story-under-criticism.html.

88

Email to AnneMarie Slaughter, February 22, 2013.

89

«Life Interests—1992 and 2012,» Work/ Life Integration Project, Wharton School, University of Pennsylvania, worklife.wharton.upenn.edu/research/life-interests-of-wharton-students/1992-and-2012. For a more descriptive account of the ndings, see Stewart D. Friedman, Baby Bust: New Choices for Men and Women in Work & Family (Philadelphia: Wharton Digital Press, 2013).

90

Robyn Ely, Pamela Stone, and Colleen Ammerman, «Rethinking What You ‘Know’ About High-Achieving Women,» Harvard Business Review, December 2014, hbr.org/2014/12/rethink-what-you-know-about-high-achieving-women.

91

Marc Tracy, «Here Come the Daddy Wars,» New Republic, June 14, 2013, newrepublic.com/article/113490/ daddy-wars-will-be-mommy-wars-men.

92

Kim Parker and Wendy Wang, «Modern Parenthood: Roles of Moms and Dads Converge as They Balance Work and Family,» Pew Research Center Social and Demographic Trends, March 14, 2013, pewsocialtrends.org/ les/2013/03/FINAL_modern_parenthood _03-2013.pdf.

93

Joan Williams, Unbending Gender: Why Family and Work Con ict and What to Do About It (New York: Oxford University Press, 2000), p. 22.

94

Brigid Schulte, Overwhelmed: Work, Love and Play When No One Has the Time (New York: Sarah Crichton Books, 2014), p. 77.

95

Padavic, Ely, and Reid, «The Work-Family Narrative as a Social Defense,» p. 19.

96

Там же, с. 20.

97

Debora L. Spar, Wonder Women: Sex, Power, and the Quest for Perfection (New York: Sarah Crichton Books, 2013), p. 201.

98

Email to AnneMarie Slaughter, April 8, 
2013.

99

Ariane Hegewisch and 
Yuko Hara, «Maternity, Paternity, and Adoption Leave in the United States,» Institute for Women’s Policy Research, May 2013, iwpr.org/publications/pubs/maternity-paternity-and-adoption-leave-in-the-united-states-1.

100

Kenneth Matos and Ellen Galinksy, «2014 National Study of Employers,» Families and Work Institute, April 2014, familiesandwork.org/downloads/ 2014NationalStudyOfEmployers.pdf.

101

Там же, с.30.

102

Там же.

103

Fredric R. Van Deusen, 
Jacquelyn B. James, Nadia Gill, Sharon P. McKechnie, «Overcoming the Implementation Gap,» Boston College Center for Work and Family, February 2007, p. 30, bc.edu/content/dam/ les/centers/ cwf/research/publications/pdf/BCCWF %20Flex %20Study %202007.pdf.

104

Patrick Jenkins and Harriet Agnew, «Sexism and the City,» Financial Times, January 17—18, 2015, ft.com/intl/ cms/s/2/7c182ab8-9c33-11e4-b9f8-00144feabdc0.html #axzz3UTFyp2mH.

105

Joan C. Williams, Jennifer Glass, Shelley Correll, and Jennifer L. Berdahl, Special Issue: The Flexibility Stigma, Journal of Social Issues, 69, no. 2 (2013).

106

Email to AnneMarie Slaughter, June 21, 2012.

107

Joan Blades and Nanette Fondas, p. 48.

108

Scott Coltrane, Elizabeth C. Miller, Tracy DeHaan, and Lauren Stewart, «Fathers and the Flexibility Stigma,» Journal of Social Issues 69, no. 2 (2013): 279—302.

109

Anna Beninger and Nancy M. Carter,
»The Great Debate: Flexibility vs. Face Time,» Catalyst, July 2013, catalyst.org/knowledge/great-debate- exibility-vs-face-time-busting-myths-behind-exible-work-arrangements.

110

Maria Shriver, «The Female Face of Poverty,» Atlantic, January 8, 2014, theatlantic.com/business/ archive/2014/01/the-female-face-of-poverty/282892.

111

Jon Graef, «Fired Whole Foods Worker Rhiannon Broschat-Salguero: ‘I’m Not Going to Choose My Job Over My Son,’ « Chicagoist, February 9, 2014, chicagoist.com/2014/02/09/ red_whole_foods_worker rhiannonb.php.

112

Transcript, «Why Women’s Economic Security Matters for All,» Center for American Progress, Washington, D.C., September 18, 2014, cdn.americanprogress.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/09.18.14-CAP-Womens-Economic-Security-transcript.pdf.

113

«Jenny Brown, «Enough with the Just In Time Schedules, Say Retail Workers,» Labor Notes, November 19, 2012, labornotes.org/2012/11/enough-just-time-schedules-say-retail-workers#sthash.sFnhjWIq.dpuf.

114

Susan J. Lambert, «When Flexibility Hurts,» New York Times, September 20, 2012, nytimes.com/2012/09/20/opinion/low-paid-women-want-predictable-hours-and-steady-pay.html.

115

Jodi Kantor, «Working Anything but 9 to 5,» New York Times, August 13, 2014, nytimes.com/interactive/2014/08/13/us/starbucks-workers-scheduling-hours.html.

116

Jodi Kantor, «Starbucks to Revise Policies to End Irregular Schedules for Its 130,000 Baristas,» New York Times, August 14, 2014, nytimes.com/2014/ 08/15/us/starbucks-to-revise-work-scheduling-policies.html.

117

Maureen Dowd, «Campaign Pro le; A Primer: How the White House Budget Czar Not Only Survives, but Thrives,» New York Times, September 22, 1992, nytimes.com/1992/09/22/us/1992-campaign-campaign-pro le-primer-whitehouse-budget-czar-not-only-survives.html.

118

Andrew Nusca, «IBM’s Rometty: ‘Growth and Comfort Don’t Coexist,’ « Fortune, October 7, 2014, fortune .com/2014/10/07/ibms-rometty-growth-and-comfort-dont-coexist.

119

Arianna Huf ngton, Thrive: The Third Metric to Rede ning Success and Creating a Life of Well-Being, Wisdom, and Wonder (New York: Harmony Books, 2014), p. 1.

120

«The First Ever 2014 Cadillac ELR: Poolside,» YouTube-відео компанії “Кадилак”, 7 лютого 2014 року: youtube.com/watch?v=qGJSI48gkFc.

121

Brigid Schulte, «5 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Work Too Hard,» Washington Post, February 21, 2014, washingtonpost.com/blogs/she-the-people/ wp/2014/02/21/5things-you-get-from-working-too-hard/ ?tid=pm_pop.

122

Diana T. Kurylko, «Mercedes Beats BMW in Luxury Race,» Automotive News, January 6, 2014, autonews.com/article/20140106/RETAIL01/301069959/mercedes-beats-bmw-in-luxury-race.

123

Rebecca Ray, Milla Sanes, and John Schmitt, «No Vacation Nation Revisited,» Center for Economic Policy, May 2013, cepr.net/documents/publications/no-vacation-update-2013-05.pdf.

124

Robert Asher and Ronald Edsforth, with Stephen Merlino, eds., Autowork (Albany, NY: State University of New York Press, 1995), p. 156.

125

Schulte, Overwhelmed, p. 161.
71 Ibid., p. 162.
71 Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, Creativity: Flow and the Psychology of Discovery and Invention (New York: HarperCollins, 1996), pp. 129—30.
71 Douglas Thomas and John Seely Brown, A New Culture of Learning: Cultivating the Imagination for a World of Constant Change (Scott’s Valley, AZ: Create Space Independent Publishing Platform, 2011), eBook, loc. 1370—89.

126

Timothy Keller, Every Good Endeavor (New York: Dutton, 2012), p. 41.

127

Там же, с.42.

128

Там же, с. 41. Я завдячую цим відкриттям Anand Giriharadas, «Keeping One’s Work in 
Perspective,» New York Times, December 29, 2012, nytimes.com/2012/12/29/ 
us/ 29iht-currents29.html.

129

у John F. Helliwell, Richard Layard, and Jeffrey Sachs, eds., World Happiness Report 2015 (New York: United Nations Sustainable Development Solutions Network, 2015), worldhappiness.report/ed/2015.

130

«Paul Tudor Jones Comments on the Lack of Female Traders,» Washington Post, May 23, 2013, washingtonpost.com/local/education/paul-tudor-jones-comments-on-the-lack-of-female-traders-during-u-va-event/2013/05/07/871a3fc4-b723-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html.

131

Michelle Celarier, «Hedge Fund Women Not Bashing Paul Tudor Jones for Saying Having Babies Makes Women Lousy Traders,» New York Post,
May 25, 2013, nypost.com/2013/05/25/hedge-fund-women-not-bashing-paul-tudor-jones-for-saying-having-babies-makes-women-lousy-traders.

132

Jacki Zehner, «Can Mothers Be Traders?,» LinkedIn Post, May 25, 2013, linkedin.com/today/post/article/20130525134605-25295057-can-mothers-be-traders.

133

«Paul Tudor Jones Comments on the Lack of Female Traders».

134

Brad M. Barber and Terrence Odean, «Boys Will Be Boys: Gender, Overcon dence and Common Stock Investment,» Quarterly Journal of Economics 16, no. 1 (2001): 261—92; Meredith Jones, «Women in Alternative Investments: A Marathon, Not a Sprint,» Rothstein Kass, December 2013, kpmginstitutes.com/content/dam/kpmg/ kpmginstitutes/pdf/2014/womenin-alternative-investments.pdf.

135

у Sendhil Mullainathan and Eldar Sha r, Scarcity: The New Science of Having Less and How It De nes Our Lives (New York: Henry Holt, 2013).

136

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137

Там же, с.273–274.

138

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143

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144

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145

Pamela Stone, Opting Out? Why Women Really Quit Careers and Head Home (Berkeley: University of California Press, 2007), p. 145.

146

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147

у Timothy Casey and Laurie Maldonado, «Worst Off—Single Parent Families in the United States: A Cross-National Comparison of Single Parenthood in the U.S. and 16 Other High Income Countries,» Legal Momentum, Women’s Legal Defense and Education Fund, December 2012, legalmomentum.org/sites/default/ les/reports/worst-off-single-parent.pdf; Matt Bruenig, «The Poorest Norwegian Children Are Twice as Rich as the Poorest American Children,» Demos: An Equal Say and An Equal Chance for All, January 12, 2015, demos.org/blog/1/12/15/poorest-norwegian-children-are-twice-rich-poorest-american-children.

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152

Elizabeth Warren and Amelia Warren Tyagi, The Two-Income Trap: Why Middle-Class Mothers and Fathers Are Going Broke (New York: Basic, 2003), pp. 97—122.

153

Ann Crittenden, The Price of Motherhood: Why the Most Important Job in the World Is Still the Least Valued (New York: Henry Holt, 2001), p. 6.

154

Gloria Steinem,
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155

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156

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157

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158

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159

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160

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162

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163

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164

Warren and Tyagi, The Two-Income Trap, p. 59.

165

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166

Hanna Rosin, The End of Men (New York: Riverhead Books, 2012), pp. 4—5.

167

Там же, с.85. Liza Mundy, The Richer Sex, pp. 62—68.

168

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169

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170

Taigi Smith, «What Happens When Your Hood Is the Last Stop,» in Daisy Hernández and Bushra Rehman, eds., Colonize This! Young Women of Color on Today’s Feminism (New York: Seal, 2002), pp. 54—64.

171

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172

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173

Kate Bolick, «Single People Deserve WorkLife Balance, Too,» Atlantic, June 28, 2012.

174

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175

Folbre, For Love and Money, p. xi.

176

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177

«Domestic Workers’ Bill of Rights,» New York State Department of Labor, labor.ny.gov/legal/domesticworkers-bill-of-rights.shtm.

178

Ai-jen Poo, with Ariane Conrad, The Age of Dignity: Preparing for the Elder Boom in a Changing America (New York: New Press, 2015), p. 115.

179

Atul Gawande, Being Mortal (New York: Henry Holt, 2014), p. 79.

180

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181

Ann Crittenden, The Price of Motherhood: Why the Most Important Job in the World Is Still the Least Valued (New York: Henry Holt), p. 73.

182

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183

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184

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186

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187

Keren Brown Wilson, drawn from Atul Gawande, Being Mortal (New York: Henry Holt, 2014), pp. 103—7; quote is on p. 105.

188

Allison Stevens, «Working Moms Not Exhausted? Oh Yes We Are,» Women’s e-News, July 10, 2012.
107 Alison Gopnik, The Philosophical Baby: What Children’s Minds Tell Us About Truth, Love, and the Meaning of Life (New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2009), p. 72.

189

Jennifer Senior, All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenting (New York: HarperCollins, 2014), p. 102.

190

Adam Grant, Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success (New York: Viking, 2013).

191

Там же, с.32.

192

Milton Mayeroff, On Caring (New 
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193

Ruth Nanda Anshen, «What This Series Means,» afterword in Mayeroff, On Caring, p. 107.

194

Mayeroff, On Caring, p. 1.

195

Там же, с. 7.

196

Там же, с. 19.

197

Там же, с. 24.

198

B. Stewart, «Looking for a Lesson in Google’s Perks,» New York Times, March 15, 2013, nytimes.com/2013/03/16/business/at-google-a-place-to-work-and-play.html.

199

Mayeroff, On Caring, p. 21.

200

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201

David Brooks, The Road to 
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202

Gunnar, «Worthy Work, STILL Unlivable 
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203

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204

Crittenden, The Price of Motherhood, p. 1.

205

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206

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207

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208

у Margaret Fortney, «What Princeton Women Want,» Daily Princetonian, January 7, 2013, dailyprincetonian.com/ opinion/2013/01/what-princeton-women-want.

209

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210

Ендрю Романо, коментарі Принстонського клубу на семінарі “Чому жінки досі не можуть мати всього”, 10 квітня 2013 року. (Ендрю Романо запозичив термін із промови Джорджа В. Буша, яку той виголошував на щорічній конвенції NAACP 10 липня 2000 року).

211

Simon Kuper, «How Brad Pitt Brings Out the Best in Dads,» Financial Times, October 10, 2014.

212

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213

Ryan Park, «What Ruth Bader Ginsburg Taught Me About Being a Stay-at-Home Dad,» Atlantic, January 8, 2015, theatlantic.com/features/archive/ 2015/01/what-ruth-bader-ginsburg-taught-me-about-being-a-stay-at-home-dad/384289.

214

Kunal Modi, «Man Up on Family and Workplace Issues: A Response to AnneMarie Slaughter,» Huf ngton Post, July 12, 2012, huf ngtonpost.com/kunal-modi/ man-up-on-family-and-work_b_1667878.html?utm_hp_ref=media.

215

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216

Jessica Grose, «The Lesson from Baseball’s Paternity Leave Controversy: Paternity Leave Is Not Controversial,» Slate, April 7, 2014, slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2014/04/07/mlb_paternity_leave_controversy_a_happy_ending tothe_boomer_esiason_ ap.html.

217

у «Huggies—Dad Test Trailer,» Vimeo video, posted by Vince Soliven, 2013, vimeo.com/49980480.

218

Chris Routly, «We’re Dads, Huggies. Not Dummies,» Change.org, March 2012, change.org/petitions/ we-re-dads-huggies-not-dummies.

219

Там же.

220

«Chevrolet Malibu TV commercial, «The Car for the Richest Guys on Earth,» iSpot.tv, last aired September 14, 2014, ispot.tv/ad/7j2u/2014-chevrolet-malibu-the-car-for-the-richest-guys-on-earth.

221

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222

Kim Parker and Wendy Wang, «Modern Parenthood: Roles of Moms and Dads Converge as They Balance Work and Family,» Pew Research Center Social and Demographic Trends, March 14, 2013, pewsocialtrends.org/ les/ 2013/03/FINAL_modern_parenthood_03-2013.pdf.

223

«About Us,» GoodMen Project, undated, goodmenproject.com/about.

224

Betsy Bury, Dartmouth Class of 1987, 25th Reunion Class Book (Hanover, NH: Dartmouth College, 2012), p. 27.

225

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226

Michael Kimmel, «Solving the ‘Boy Crisis’ in Schools,» Huf ngton Post, April 30, 2013, huf ngtonpost .com/michael-kimmel/solving-the-boy-crisis-in_b_3126379.html.

227

Thomas A. DiPrete and Claudia Buchmann, The Rise of Women: The Growing Gender Gap in Education and What It Means for American Schools (New York: Russell Sage Foundation, 2013).

228

Sean F. Reardon, «The Widening Academic Achievement Gap Between the Rich and the Poor: New Evidence and Possible Explanations,» in Greg J. Duncan and Richard J. Murnane, eds., Whither Opportunity? Rising Inequality, Schools, and Children’s Life Chances (New York: Russell Sage Foundation, 2011).

229

Sharon Lewis, Michael Casserly, Candace Simon, et al., «A Call for Change: Providing Solutions for Black Male Achievement,» Council of the Great City Schools, December 2012, cgcs.org/cms/lib/DC00001581/Centricity/Domain/4/A %20Call %20For %20Change_FinaleBook .pdf.

230

Там же.

231

Wayne Martino, «Gendered Learning Practices: Exploring the Costs of Hegemonic Masculinity for Girls and Boys in Schools,» in Gender Equity: A Framework for Australian Schools (Canberra, Australia: Ministerial Council for Employment, Education, Training, and Youth Affairs, 1997).

232

Kimmel, «Solving the ‘Boy Crisis’ in Schools.»

233

DiPrete and Buchmann, 
The Rise of Women, chapter 6.

234

імейл до Анни-Марі Слотер, 
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235

імейл до Анни-Марі Слотер, 21 травня 2014.

236

в Sarah Blaffer Hrdy, Mothers and Others: The Evolutionary Origins of Mutual Understanding (Cambridge, MA: Belknap Press of Harvard University Press, 2009), p. 134.

237

у Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, 
Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality (New York: 
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238

Paul Seabright, The War of the 
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239

Bebe Moore Campbell, 
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240

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241

«Spanx Speaks: Founder Sara Blakely,» 2013 Women in the World Summit, April 2013, livestream.com/womenintheworld/womenintheworld/videos/15577625; Ralph Gardner, Jr., «Alpha Women, Beta Men,» New York, 2003, nymag .com/nymetro/news/features/n_9495.

242

Park, «What Ruth Bader Ginsburg Taught Me.»

243

Gretchen Livingston, «Growing Number of Dads Home with the Kids; Chapter 2: Why Are Dads Staying Home?,» Pew Research Center Social and Demographic Trends, June 5, 2014, pewsocialtrends.org/2014/06/05/chapter-2-why-are-dads-staying-home.

244

Mohamed El-Erian, «Father and Daughter Reunion,» Worth, May/June 2014, worth.com/index.php/component/content/article/4-live/6722-father-and-daughter-reunion.

245

Max Schireson, «Why I Am Leaving the Best Job I Ever Had,» Max Schireson’s blog, August 5, 2014, maxschireson.com/2014/08/05/1137.

246

Jeremy Adam Smith, The Daddy Shift: How Stay-at-Home Dads, Breadwinning Moms, and Shared Parenting Are Transforming the American Family (Boston: Beacon Press, 2009).

247

Shirley Leung, «A Welcome Role Reversal,» Boston Globe, June 13, 2014, bostonglobe.com/business/2014/06/12/number-stay-home-dads-rising/OnmubpLSz ZgC5XLzaO93uM/story.html.

248

Bronnie Ware, The Top Five Regrets of the Dying (New York: Hay House, 2012).

249

Bronnie Ware, «Top 5 Regrets of the Dying,» Huf ngton Post, January 21, 2012, huf ngtonpost.com/ bronnie-ware/top-5-regrets-of-the-dyin_b_1220965.html.

250

Там же.

251

Park, «What Ruth Bader Ginsburg Taught Me.»

252

Barack Obama, «Remarks by the President at Morehouse College Commencement Ceremony,» May 19, 2013, whitehouse.gov/the-press-of ce/2013/05/19/ remarks-president-morehouse-college-commencement-ceremony.

253

Lisa Miller, «The Retro Wife,» New York, March 17, 2013, nymag.com/news/features/retro-wife-2013-3.

254

Aaron Gouveia, «It’s Time to Stop Treating Dads Like Idiots,» Huf ngton Post, May 20, 2013, huf ngtonpost.com/aaron-gouveia/its-time-to-stop-treating-dads-like-idiots_b_3179351.html.

255

Claude Steele, Whistling Vivaldi: How Stereotypes Affect Us and What We Can Do (New York: W. W. Norton, 2010), eBook, pp. 131—32.

256

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257

Jack O’Sullivan, «The Masculinity Debate,» Guardian, May 21, 2013, theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/may/21/masculinity-debate-men-fear-ridicule-matriarchy.

258

Navneet Magon and Sanjay Kalra, «The Orgasmic History of Oxytocin: Love, Lust, and Labor,» Indian Journal of Endocrinology and Metabolism, 15, suppl. 13 (September 2011): 5156—61, ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/ PMC3183515.

259

T. H. Clutton-Brock, The Evolution of Parental Care (Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press, 1991), p. 132.

260

Craig Howard Kinsley and Kelly G. Lambert, «The Maternal Brain,» Scienti c American, January 2006, www2.sunysuffolk.edu/benharm/Articles/the %20maternal %20brain %20- %20kinsley.pdf.

261

Kelly G. Lambert, «The Parental Brain: Transformations and Adaptations,» Physiology & Behavior, 107 (2012), 792—800, ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22480732.

262

Benedetta Leuner, Erica R. Glasper, and Elizabeth Gould, «Parenting and Plasticity,» Trends in Neurosciences, 33, no. 10 (October 2010): 465—73, ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20832872.

263

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264

Christian Jarrett, «How Becoming a Father Changes Your Brain,» Wired, July 17, 2014, wired.com/ 2014/07/how-becoming-a-father-changes-your-brain.

265

Brigid Schulte, «With Exposure to Babies, Rodent Dads’ Brains, Like Moms’, Become Wired for Nurture,» Washington Post, June 15, 2013, washingtonpost.com/ local/with-exposure-to-babies-rodent-dads-brains-like-moms-become-wired-for-nurture/2013/06/15/8f0758ea-d3e6-11e2-a73e-826d299ff459_story.html.

266

Jennifer Senior, All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenting (New York: HarperCollins, 2014).

267

з T. J. Mathews and Brady E. Hamilton, «Delayed Childbearing: More Women Are Having Their First Child Later in Life,» NCHS Data Brief No. 21, August 2009, cdc.gov/nchs/data/databriefs/db21.pdf.

268

Senior, All Joy and No Fun, p. 7.

269

Milton Mayeroff, On 
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270

Katrin Bennhold, «When Dad 
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271

у Paul Taylor, ed., «The Decline of Marriage and Rise of New Families,» Pew Research Center Social and Demographic Trends, November 18, 2010, pewsocialtrends.org/ les/2010/11/pewsocial-trends-2010-families.pdf.

272

Hanna Rosin, The End of Men (New York: Riverhead Books, 2012), p. 15.

273

Guy Raz, «An NPR Host’s Other Job: Stay-At-Home Dad,» Atlantic, March 17, 2011, theatlantic.com/national/archive/2011/03/an-npr-hosts-other-job-stay-at-home-dad/72588.

274

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275

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276

Marianne Bertrand, Emir Kamenica, and Jessica Pan, «Gender Identity and Relative Income Within Households,» National Bureau of Economic Research Working Paper Series, May 2013, nber.org/papers/w19023.

277

Betsy Polk and Maggie Ellis Chotas, Power Through Partnership: How Women Lead Better Together (San Francisco: Berett-Koehler, 2014), p. 14.

278

Debora L. Spar, Wonder Women: Sex, Power, and the Quest for Perfection (New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2013), p. 234.

279

Там же.

280

Там же, с. 233.

281

Betsey Stevenson and Justin 
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282

з Gro Harlem Brundtland, Madam Prime 
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283

Nancy Gibbs, «Norway’s Radical Daughter,» Time, June 24, 2001, content.time.com/time/ magazine/article/0,9171,152609,00.html.

284

Miller, «The Retro Wife.»

285

Senior, All Joy and No Fun, p. 79.

286

Там же, с. 87.

287

Gretchen Livingston, «The Rise of Single Fathers: A Ninefold Increase Since 1960,» Pew Research Center Social and Demographic Trends, June 2013, pewsocialtrends.org/ les/2013/07/single-fathers-07-2013.pdf; Kelly Musick and Ann Meier, «Are Both Parents Always Better than One? Parental Con ict and Young Adult Well-being,» Social Science Research 39, no. 5 (2010): 814—30.

288

«Loving v. Virginia: The Case Over Interracial Marriage,» ACLU, aclu.org/racial-justice/loving-v-virginia-case-over-interracial-marriage.

289

Mary Francis Berry, «The Mother of All Debates; The Father’s Hour,» New York Times, February 10, 1993, nytimes.com/1993/02/10/opinion/the-mother-of-all-debates-the-fathers-hour.html.

290

Там же.

291

Viviana A. Zelizer, Pricing the Priceless Child: 
The Changing Social Value of Children (Princeton, NJ: Princeton 
University Press, 1994), pp. 62—64.

292

Там же, с. 97–98.

293

Susan Faludi, Stiffed: The Betrayal of the American Man (New York: HarperCollins, 2010), eBook, p. 816.
168 Abigail Rine, «Feminist Housedude,» Mama Unabridged, March 21, 2013, mamaunabridged.com/2013/ 03/21/feminist-housedude.

Частина третя. На шляху до рівності

294

Jeffrey Rosen, «The New Look of Liberalism on the Court,» New York Times, October 5, 1997, nytimes.com/1997/10/05/magazine/the-new-look-of-liberalism-on-the-court.html.

295

AnneMarie Slaughter, «Can We All ‘Have It All’?,» TEDGlobal 2013, June 2013, ted.com/ talks/anne_marie_slaughter_can_we_all_have_it_all.

296

Rich Ferraro, «Facebook Introduces Custom Gender Field to Allow Users to More Accurately Re ect Who They Are,» GLAAD, February 13, 2014, glaad.org/blog/ facebook-introduces-custom-gender- eld-allow-users-more-accurately-re ect-who-they-are.

297

Gloria Feldt, «Why Women Must Seize This Moment,» CNN, March 14, 2013, cnn.com/2013/03/10/opinion/feldt-women-balance.

298

у Tara Sophia Mohr, «Slaughter’s Story Made the Cover—What Stories Got Left Out?,» Huf ngton Post, July 9, 2012, huf ngtonpost.com/tara-sophia-mohr/having-it-all_b_1658131.html.

299

Laura Rozen, «Policy Planning’s AnneMarie Slaughter Signs Off,» Politico, February 3, 2011, politico.com/blogs/laurarozen/0211/Policy_Planning_chief_AnneMarie_Slaughter_signs_off.html.

300

Elizabeth Bumiller, «One of the Pentagon’s Top Women Is Stepping Down,» New York Times, December 11, 2011, nytimes.com/2011/12/13/us/michele-ournoy-resigns-as-a-top-pentagon-adviser.html.

301

Там же.

302

імейл до Анни-Марі Слотер, 14 вересня 2011.

303

White House Working Families Summit, Part 2, Washington, D.C., June 23, 2014, c-span.org/video/?320109-101/whitehouse-working-families-summit-part-2.

304

186 Cali Williams Yost, Work + Life: Finding the Fit That’s Right for You (New York: Riverhead Books, 2004); Dan Schwabel, «Cali Williams Yost: Why We Have to Rethink Work Life Balance,» Forbes, January 8, 2013, forbes.com/sites/ danschawbel/2013/01/08/cali-williams-yost-why-we-have-to-rethink-worklife-balance.

305

Joan Blades and Nanette Fondas, The Custom-Fit Workplace: Choose When, Where, and How to Work and Boost Your Bottom Line (San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 2010), pp. 10—11; E. Kelly Moen and R. Huang, « ‘Fit’ Inside the Work/ Family Black Box: An Ecology of the Life Course, Cycles of Control Reframing,» Journal of Occupational and Organizational Psychology 81 (2008): 411—33; Judy Casey and Karen Corday, «WorkLife Fit and the Life Course: An Interview with Phyllis Moen,» Sloan Work and Family Research Network, Network News 11, no. 9 (September 2009).

Розділ 9. Планування вашої кар’єри (навіть якщо рідко виходить за планом)

306

З промови Ейзенхауера на Національній оборонній конференції у Вашингтоні 14 листопада 1957 року, у Національних архівах та Службі записів Public Papers of the Presidents of the United States, Dwight D. Eisenhower, 1957 (Washington, DC: Government Printing Of ce, 1958), с. 818.

307

Social Security Online, «Life Expectancy Calculator,» Social Security Administration, socialsecurity.gov/cgi-bin/longevity.cgi.

308

Felicitie C. Bell and Michael L. Miller, «Life Tables for the United States Social Security Area 1900— 2100,» Social Security Administration, April 7, 2009, socialsecurity .gov/oact/NOTES/s2000s.html.

309

Social Security Online, «Life Expectancy Calculator.»

310

Barry Bosworth and Kathleen Burke, «Differential Mortality and Retirement Bene ts in the Health and Retirement Study,» Brookings Institution, April 8, 2014, brookings.edu/research/papers/2014/04/differential-mortality-retirement-bene ts-bosworth.

311

«Welcoming the Age of the 
Explorer,» Future of Work Research Consortium, October 2014, hotspotsmovement.com/uploads/newsletters/theexplorer.html; Lynda Gratton, The Shift: The Future of Work Is Already Here (New York: HarperCollins Business, 2011).

312

Barrie Hopson and Katie Ledger, And What Do You Do? Ten Steps to Creating a Portfolio Career (London: A & C Black, 2009).

313

David Brooks, «The Moral Bucket List,» New York Times, April 12, 2015,

nytimes.com/2015/04/12/opinion/sunday/david-brooks-the-moral-bucket-list.html.

314

Lisa Belkin, «The Opt-Out Revolution,» New York Times, October 26, 2003, nytimes.com/2003/10/26/magazine/26WOMEN.html.

315

Judith Warner, «The Opt-Out Generation Wants Back In,» New York Times, August 7, 2013, nytimes.com/2013/08/11/magazine/the-opt-out-generation-wants-back-in.html.

316

Hanna Rosin, The End of Men (New York: Riverhead Books, 2012).

317

Reid Hoffman, Ben Casnocha, and Chris Yeh, The Alliance: Managing Talent in the Networked Age (Boston: Harvard Business Review Press, 2014), eBook, p. 12.

318

Там же.

319

Там же, с. 19.

320

«Career Intermission Pilot 
Program Update,» U.S. Navy of cial website, October 2009, public.navy.mil/bupers-npc/reference/messages/Documents/ NAVADMINS/NAV2009/NAV09301.txt; Rear Adm. Tony Kurta, «Career Intermission Pilot Program Updated,» Navy Live, May 16, 2013, navylive.dodlive.mil/2013/05/16/career-intermission-pilot-program-updated.

321

Stephen Losey, «Air Force to Offer 3 Years Off for Airmen to Start Families,» Air Force Times, May 15, 2014, airforcetimes.com/article/20140515/CAREERS/305150044/ AirForce-offer-3-years-off-airmen-start-families.

322

Там же.

323

McKinsey & Company, «Take Time,» Agile Future Forum, November 2014, agilefutureforum.co uk/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/Case-Study-McKinsey.pdf.

324

Abbie E. Goldberg, Julianna 
Z. Smith, and Maureen Perry-Jenkins, «The Division of Labor in Lesbian, Gay, and Heterosexual New Adoptive Parents,» Journal of Marriage and Family 74 (2012): 812—28, wordpress.clarku.edu/ agoldberg/ les/2012/03/Goldberg-Smith-Perry-Jenkins-2012-JMF.pdf; Lawrence A. Kurdek, «The Allocation of Labor by Partners in Gay and Lesbian Couples,» Journal of Family Issues 28, no. 1 (2007): 132—48.

325

Alix Kates Shulman, «A Marriage Agreement,» Up from Under 1, no. 2 (August—September 1970): 5—8.

326

Rebecca Onion, «The Pre-Pregnancy Contract,» Slate, July 10, 2014, slate.com/ articles/double_x/doublex/2014/07/pre_pregnancy_contract_signing_on_the_dotted_linetoavoid_household_con ict.single .html.

327

«Future of Work: There’s an App for That,» Economist, January 3, 2015, economist.com/news/ brie ng/21637355-freelance-workers-available-moments-notice-will-reshape-nature-companies-and?fsrc=scn/tw_ec/there_s_ an_appforthat.

328

Kevin Roose, «Does Silicon Valley Have a Contract-Worker Problem?,» New York, September 18, 2014, nymag.com/daily/intelligencer/2014/09/ silicon-valleys-contract-worker-problem.html.

329

Thomas W. Malone, The Future of Work: How the New Order of Business Will Shape Your Organization, Your Management Style, and Your Life (Cambridge, MA: Harvard Business School Press, 2004), p. 74. For information on SAGAFTRA, see sagaftra.org/union-information.

330

Deborah Epstein Henry, Suzie Scanlon Rabinowitz, and Garry A. Berger, Finding Bliss: Innovative Legal Models for Happy Clients and Happy Lawyers (Chicago: American Bar Association, 2015).

331

«Future of Work: There’s an App for That.»

332

імейл до Анни-Марі Слотер, 2 квітня 2015.

333

Openwork.org.

334

Інтерв’ю з Кетлін Крістенсен, програмним директором Alfred P. Sloan Foundation, 9 жовтня 2014 року.

335

Ellen Galinsky and Mike Aitken, «2013 Guide to Bold New Ideas for Making Work Work,» When Work Works, 2012, p. 6, familiesandwork.org/ downloads/2013GuidetoBoldNew Ideas.pdf. 
Усі ці компанії зазначені у переліку переможців Інституту сім’ї та роботи і Товариства людських ресурсів і нагороджені премією «Коли робота виконується». Процес відбору проводиться ретельно, розглядають ефективність та гнучкість і працедавців, і працівників. Беруться до уваги рейтинги працівників, що складатимуть 2/3 оцінки переможця.

336

(Ernst & Young). Там же, с.62.

337

у Cathy Benko and Anne Weisberg, «Mass Career CustomizationTM: A New Model for How Careers Are Built,» Ivey Business Journal, May/June 2008, iveybusinessjournal.com/publication/mass-career-customization-a-new-model-for-how-careers-are-built.

338

Renee McGaw, «Life Balance Issues Are Gender-Neutral,» Denver Business Journal, January 18, 2009, bizjournals.com/denver/stories/2009/01/19/ focus1.html.

339

Openwork.org.

340

«Workplace Awards: Delta Air Lines,» When Work Works, Families and Work Institute and the Society for Human Resource Management, 2014, whenworkworks .org/workplace-awards/delta-air-lines.

341

«Workplace Awards: Southern California Gas Company,» When Work Works, Families and Work Institute and the Society for Human Resource Management, 2014, whenworkworks.org/workplace-awards/ southern-california-gas-company.

342

Joan Blades and Nanette Fondas, The Custom-Fit Workplace: Choose When, Where, and How to Work and Boost Your Bottom Line (San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 2010), pp. 58—59, citing «Telework Facts & Stats,» Telework Coalition, telcoa.org/resources/references/telework-tools/telework-facts-stats; «Workspace Utilization and Allocation Benchmark,» GSA Of ce of Government-wide Policy, July 2011, gsa.gov/graphics/ogp/Workspace_Utilization_Banchmark_July_2012.pdf.

343

Douglas MacMillan, «To Recruit Techies, Companies Offer Unlimited Vacation,» Businessweek,
July 19, 2012, businessweek.com/articles/2012-07-19/to-recruit-techies-companies-offer-unlimited-vacation.

344

Там же.

345

в Todd Wasserman, «Coming to a Couch Near You: A New Wave of Telecommuting,» Mashable, 
April 10, 2014, mashable.com/2014/04/10/the-telecommuting
-dream-is-dead.

346

Shayndi Raice, «Goldman Seeks to 
Improve Working Conditions for Junior Staffers,» Wall Street Journal, October 28, 2013, online.wsj.com/news/articles/ SB10001424052702303471004579164051099280722.

347

William Alden and Sydney Ember, «Banks Ease Hours for Junior Staff, but Workload Stays Same,» New York Times, April 9, 2014, dealbook.nytimes.com/2014/ 04/09/banks-ease-hours-for-junior-staff-but-workload-stays-same.

348

Stephanie Emma Pfeffer, «10 Steps to Negotiating for a Flexible Work Arrangement,» Woman’s Day, July 10, 2013, womansday.com/life/work-money/ tips/a7013/ ex-time.

349

Andrew J. Oswalk, Eugenio Proto, and Daniel Sgroi, «Happiness and Productivity,» University of Warwick Working Paper, February 10, 2014, www2.warwick.ac.uk/fac/soc/ economics/staff/eproto/workingpapers/happinessproductivity.pdf.

350

Cali Ressler and Jody Thompson, Why Work Sucks and How to Fix It: The Results-Only Revolution (New York: Portfolio, 2008), eBook, p. 10.

351

Hubert Joly, «Best Buy CEO on Leadership: A Comment I Made Was Misconstrued,» Star Tribune, March 17, 2013, startribune.com/ opinion/commen­taries/198546011.html.

352

«Diversity and Inclusion,» Gap Inc., Social & Environmental Responsibility Report 2011/2012, gapinc.com/ content/csr/html/employees/diversity-and-inclusion.html.

353

Cali Ressler and Jody Thompson, «How to Get Employees to Manage Themselves,» ChangeThis, issue 106-01, June 5, 2013, changethis.com/ manifesto/show/106.01.ManageWork/.

354

Інтерв’ю із Сабріною Парсонс, СЕО cer, Palo Alto Software, 17 грудня 2014 року.

355

Там же.

356

Richard 
Dobbs, Anu Madgavkar, Dominic Barton, et al., «The World at Work: Jobs, Pay, and Skills for 3.5 Billion People,» McKinsey Global Institute, McKinsey & Company, June 2012, mckinsey.com/insights/employment_and_growth/the_world_at_work.

357

Bill Gates, «Bill Gates—2008 World Economic Forum—Creative Capitalism,» Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, January 24, 2008, gatesfoundation.org/media-center/speeches/2008/01/bill-gates-2008-world-economic-forum. 
Chapter 11: Citizens Who Care.

358

«Latest Annual Data,» United States Department of Labor, 2013, dol.gov/wb/ stats/recentfacts.htm.

359

Ai-Jen Poo, with Ariane Conrad, The Age of Dignity: Preparing for the Elder Boom in a Changing America (New York: New Press, 2015), p. 143.

360

Сайт The Family Care Alliance 
містить навігатор, який допомагає доглядальникам та службам підтримки у своїх штатах, Link2Care, онлайн-дискусія та групи підтримки, організовані Національним Центром Опіки, що є інформаційним центром для всіх федеральних законів щодо політики догляду, може виступати ресурсом для тих, хто хоче бути залученим. У них є безкоштовний електронний інформаційний бюлетень на сайті: caregiver.org, на який ви можете підписатися й двічі на місяць отримувати інформацію про закони, програми та фінансування. Про «About FCA,» Family Caregiver Alliance, див. тут: caregiver.org/about-fca, а також: «Newsletters,» Family Caregiver Alliance, caregiver.org/newsletters.

361

Сполученим Штатам ледь вдається фінансувати дошкільну програму, тобто 2 роки, перш ніж діти йдуть до школи. Відсоток дітей 4-річного віку, що потрапляють у цю категорію, зріс удвічі за останні десять років, але досі сягає 28 %. Десять штатів не мають жодних варіантів державних дошкільних програм для дітей. Див.: W. Steven Barnett, Megan E. Carolan, James H. Squires та Kirsty Clarke Brown, «The State of Preschool 2013,» National Institute for Early Education, 2013, nieer.org/sites/nieer/ les/yearbook2013.pdf. Оклахома — яскравий приклад універсальної дошкільної програми, що може прокласти шлях і для інших штатів. Усі вчителі дошкільних програм Оклахоми здобули сертифікати у дошкільному викладанні і отримують таку ж зарплатню, що й вчителі початкової, середньої та старшої шкіл. Читайте у Робін Янг інтерв’ю з Стівеном Доу: «Why Oklahoma’s Universal Pre-K Is Successful,» Here & Now, 20 лютого 2014 року, hereandnow.wbur.org/2014/02/20/universal-pre-kindergarten. Оклахома розцінює дошкільну програму як будь-яку іншу сходинку системи і штат дозволяє школам бути партнерами федеральних програм, на кшталт Head Start та інших зовнішніх організацій, щоб збільшити фінансування. Див.: «Oklahoma,» National Institute for Early Education, 2013, nieer.org/sites/nieer/ les/Okla-homa_0.pdf. Оклахома навіть відправляє соціальних працівників навчати виснажених батьків, як виховувати дітей. Див.: Nicholas Kristof, «Oklahoma! Where the Kids Learn Early,» New York Times, 9 листопада 2013 року, nytimes.com/2013/11/10/opinion/sunday/ kristof-oklahoma-where-the-kids-learn-early.html. Центр Американського Прогресу (ЦАП) має на меті запровадити 2-річну дошкільну програму для всіх дітей. Згідно з планом ЦАП, федеральний уряд покриватиме державні витрати в розмірі 10 000 доларів щорічно. Дошкільна програма буде безкоштовною для бідних сімей, а заможні сім’ї платитимуть відповідно до розрахункової шкали в залежності від їхніх фінансових умов. Універсальний догляд за дітьми не буде дешевим, але, як суспільство, ми отримаємо вигоду. Див.: Cynthia G. Brown, Donna Cooper, Juliana Herman, et al., «Investing in Our Children: A Plan to Ex-pand Access to Preschool and Child Care,» Center for American Progress, 2013, americanprogress.org/issues/education/report/2013/02/07/52071/investing-in-our-children. Джорджія теж запровадила універсальну дошкільну програму, а також інші штати, як Нью-Йорк та Міннесота, працюють над цим. Див.: Reid Wilson, «New York Will Begin Universal Pre-kindergarten,» Washington Post, 31березня 2014 року, washingtonpost.com/blogs/ govbeat/wp/2014/03/31/new-york-will-begin-universal-pre-kindergarten.

362

«Supreme Court Backs Pregnant UPS Worker,» Forbes, 25 березня 2015 року, forbes.com/sites/ashleaebeling/2015/03/25/supreme-court-backs-pregnant-ups-worker. Хоча вже в деяких штатах існують федеральні правові захисти для вагітних жінок завдяки Закону про американців з особливими потребами, Закону про дискримінацію вагітності та Закону про сім’ю та медичну відпустку. Судове тлумачення цих законів досі має чимало прогалин. У результаті вагітним жінкам часто відмовляють у відпустці чи житлі. Див.: «It Shouldn’t Be a Heavy Lift: Fair Treatment for Pregnant Workers,» National Women’s Law Center, June 2013, nwlc.org/sites/default/les/pdfs/pregnant_workers.pdf. Цей звіт показує випадки, коли вагітні жінки не були поселені своїми працедавцями, незважаючи на чинні закони, які повинні були їх захищати. Наприклад, працівниця зі сфери фаст-фуду у Вашингтоні була позбавлена можливості перерви, щоб вийти в туалет та попити води. Працівниця Rent-a-Center була змушена піти в неоплачувану примусову відпустку. Працівницю UPS не звільнили від тяжких обов’язків, хоча травмованим, невагітним працівницям повинні зменшувати навантаження, коли вони мають подібні фізичні обмеження. Щоб захистити вагітних працівниць, необхідно прийняти Закон про справедливість стосовно вагітних працівниць. Читати: «S.942: Pregnant Workers Fairness Act,» Congress. gov, 2013, congress.gov/bill/ 113th-congress/senate-bill/942. На державному та місцевому рівнях 12 штатів та два міста прийняли закони, згідно з якими підприємства повинні надавати «прийнятне житло» для вагітних працівниць та зменшувати робоче навантаження, надаючи додатковий час на перерву в туалет та пиття води. Див.: «Reasonable Accommodations for Pregnant Workers: State Laws,» National Partnership for Women & Families, April 2014, nationalpartnership.org/research-library/workplace-fairness/pregnancy-discrimination/reasonable-accommodations-for-pregnant-workers-state-laws.pdf. У березні 2015 року Верховний суд ухвалив важливе рішення стосовно Young v. United Parcel Service 135 S. Ct. 1338 (2015), постановивши, що працедавці повинні хоча б надати вагітним працівницям таке ж житло, як і іншим категоріям працівників, які тимчасово не можуть виконувати свою постійну роботу. Young v. United Parcel Service 135 S. Ct. 1338 (2015).

363

Зверніть увагу на Caring Across Generations — організацію, що творить національний рух «дбайливої більшості», виконуючи чотири основні напрямки програми: культурні зміни в роботі, державний та федеральний захист, онлайн-кампанія, діяльність літніх людей та участь громадськості: caringacross.org/about-us. Згідно з другим випуском державної системи показників AARP, витрати на догляд за літніми людьми — неприйнятні для більшості американців. У середньому витрати на доглядальника становлять 246 % середнього доходу людей похилого віку. Навіть у найзаможніших штатах вартість сягає 171 % середнього доходу. Догляд є більш доступним, але все одно сягає 84 % середнього доходу, і як зазначає AARP «Традиційна сім’я, що складається з людей похилого віку, не може дозволити собі таких витрат протягом тривалого періоду». Див.: Susan C. Reinhard, Enid Kassner, Ari Houser, et al., «Raising Expectations: A State Scorecard on Long-Term Services and Supports for Older Adults, People with Physical Disabilities, and Family Caregivers,» AARP, 2014, aarp.org/content/dam/aarp/research/public_policy_institute/ltc/2014/ raising-expectations-2014-AARP-ppi-ltc.pdf.

364

Атул Гавард підтримує відверте та глибоке обговорення проблем старіння та смерті, пропонуючи варіанти, які максимально сприятимуть добробуту. Див.: Atul Gawande, Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End (London: Pro le Books, 2014).

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У Великій Британії Правила працівників неповного робочого дня (Попередження поганого поводження) 2000 року «забороняють працедавцям ставитися погано до працівників неповного робочого дня на основі договірних умов та умов у порівнянні з працівниками повного робочого дня, хіба що йдеться про інше ставлення відповідно до об’єктивних підстав». Якщо особа, що працює неповний робочий день, вважає, що до неї недобре поставилися, вона може поскаржитися до Трудового Трибуналу. Див.: FindLaw UK, ndlaw.co.uk/law/ employment/discrimination/500293.html. В Ірландії Закон про захист працівників (неповного робочого дня) 2001 року гарантує, що до працівника, який працює неповний робочий день, не можна ставитися гірше, ніж до працівника, що працює повний робочий день, відповідно до умов працевлаштування. Скарги можуть бути вислухані правозахисником. Див.: Citizens Information Board, Public Service Information, Ireland, citizensin-formation.ie/en/employment/ types_of_employment/employment_rights_of_ part_time_workers .html. У Сполучених Штатах, H.R.675 — закон про права працівників неповного робочого дня був введений Дженіс Д. Шаковскі. Цей законопроект мав виправити непередбачені наслідки Закону про доступний догляд (ЗДД), який надавав працедавцям спонуку скорочувати медпослуги для працівників неповного робочого дня. Він не був прийнятий. Див.: congress.gov/ bill/113th-congress/house-bill/675. Проте деякі штати та міста почали діяти на власний розсуд. Каліфорнія та Коннектикут вимагали відпустки за здоров’ям для працівників неповного робочого дня. Вашингтон, Сіетл, Портланд, Орегон, Нью-Йорк, Джерсі, Нью-Джерсі також прийняли цей закон. Див.: Reid Wilson, «California on Brink of Requiring Paid Sick Days for Part-Time Workers,» Washington Post, September 2, 2014, washingtonpost. com/blogs/govbeat/wp/2014/09/02/california-on-brink-of-requiring-paid- sick-days-for-part-time-workers.

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Дискримінація за віком у Законі про зайнятість 1967 року (Pub. L. 90-202) (ADEA) забороняє робочу дискримінацію у сфері працевлаштування осіб віком до 40 років. Закон «забороняє дискримінацію у будь-якій сфері зайнятості, разом із наймом, оплатою праці, посадовими обов’язками, просуванням по службі, звільненням з роботи, навчанням та будь-якими іншими термінами чи умовами працевлаштування». Див.: «Age Discrimination,» U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, eeoc.gov/laws/ statutes/adea.cfm. Крім того, Закон про дискримінацію за віком 1975 року забороняє дискримінацію за віком у програмах та заходах, що супроводжуються федеральною фінансовою підтримкою. Розділ 188 Закону про інвестиції у трудові ресурси 1998 року (WIA) забороняє дискримінацію заявників, працівників та учасників програми WIA Title I. Див.: «Age Discrimination,» U.S. Department of Labor, dol.gov/dol/topic/discrimination/agedisc.htm. У сфері політики AARP виступає від імені осіб, старших за 50 років. Організація надає дослідження та інформацію політичним лідерам щодо потреб, умов ринку та тенденцій, які впливають на цей прошарок населення. Див.: «Age Discrimination Fact Sheet,» AARP, April 2014, aarp.org/ work/employee-rights/info-02-2009/age_discrimination_fact_sheet.html.

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See Alice Park, «School Should Start Later So Teens Can Sleep, Urge Doctors,» Time, August 14, 2014, time.com/3162265/school-should-start-later-so-teens-can-sleep-urge-doctors; National Association for Year Round Learning, nayre.org; «Learning Time in America: Trends to Reform the American School Calendar: A Snapshot of Federal, State, and Local Action,» Education Commission of the States, 2011, ecs.org/docs/LearningTimeinAmerica.pdf; Charles Ballinger and Carolyn Kneese, School Calendar Reform: Learning in All Seasons (Lanham, MD: R&L Education, 2006).

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Для доступного, більш обґрунтованого, огляду всіх цих пропозицій тощо див.: Меделін Кунін, першу жінку уряду Вермонта, The New Feminist Agenda: De ning the Next Revolution for Women, Work, and Family (White River Junction, VT: Chelsea Green Publishing, 2012).

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у KJ Dell’Antonia, «Fox News Anchor Pushes Paid Family Leave,» New York Times, December 12, 2011, parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/12/12/ fox-news-anchor-pushes-paidfamily-leave.

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Jonathan Cohn, «The Hell of American Day Care,» New Republic, April 15, 2013, newrepublic.com/article/ 112892/hell-american-day-care; «Parents and the High Cost of Child Care: 2014 Report,» Child Care Aware of America, 2014.

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Brigid Schulte, « ‘Mad Men’ Era of U.S. Family Policy Coming to an End?,» Washington Post, February 12, 2014, washingtonpost.com/blogs/she-the-people/wp/2014/02/12/ mad-men-era-of-us-family-policy-coming-to-an-end.

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«American Women Applauds President Obama’s Action on Paid Family Leave and Paid Sick Days,» American Women, January 15, 2015, americanwomen.org/news/americanwomen-applauds-president-obamas-action-on-paid-familyleave-and-paid-sick-days.

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Jamie Bulen, «Family Caregiving Caucus Co-Chaired by U.S. Senator Ayotte,» AARP, March 3, 2015, states.aarp.org/family-caregiving-caucus-co-chaired-by-us-senator-ayotte.

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Jana Kasperkevic, «Kay Bailey Hutchison: Not a Feminist, but an Advocate for Women,» Guardian, August 12, 2014, theguardian.com/money/us-money-blog/2014/aug/12/kay-bailey-hutchison-not-feminist-senator-business.

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«The Family and Medical Insurance Leave Act (The FAMILY Act) Fact Sheet,» National Partnership for Women and Families, 2014, nationalpartnership.org/research-library/work-family/paid-leave/family-act-fact-sheet.pdf; «H.R. 3712—Family and Medical Insurance Leave Act of 2013,» congress.gov/bill/113th-congress/house-bill/3712; «State Paid Family Leave Insurance Laws,» National Partnership for Women & Families, October 2013, nationalpartnership.org/ research-library/work-family/paid-leave/state-paid-familyleave-laws.pdf; Betsy Firestein, Ann O’Leary, and Zoe Savitsky, «A Guide to Implementing Paid Family Leave: Lessons from California,» Labor Project for Working Families, 2011, paidfamilyleave.org/pdf/p _guide.pdf.

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в John Gerzema and Michael D’Antonio, The Athena Doctrine: How Women (and Men Who Think Like Them) Will Rule the Future (San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 2013), eBook, loc. 204 of 5309.

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Там же, місце 181 з 5309.

378

Christopher F. Karpowitz and Tali 
Mendelberg, The Silent Sex: Gender, Deliberation, and Institutions 
(Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press, 2014), p. 19.

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Там же, с.16.

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Там же, с. 259.

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Там же, с. 260.

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Там же, с. 137—138.

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Там же, с. 188.

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Там же, с. 198.

385

Там же, с. 318.

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Ai-jen Poo, The Age of Dignity, pp. 2—4, 
24.

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Nancy Folbre, ed., For Love and Money: Care Provision in the United States (New York: Russell Sage, 2012), p. 187.

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Ai-jen Poo, Age of Dignity, p. 4.

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Nancy Folbre, Candace Howes, 
and Carrie Leana, «A Care Policy and Research Agenda,» in Nancy Folbre, ed., For Love and Money: Care Provision in the United States (New York: Russell Sage, 2012), pp. 183—204.

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«Military Child Care: DOD Is Taking Actions to Address Awareness and Availability Barriers,» Government Accountability Of ce, February 2012, gao.gov/assets/590/588188.pdf.

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Marcy Whitebook, Deborah Phillips, and Carollee Howes, Worthy Work, STILL Unlivable Wages: The Early Childhood Workforce 25 Years after the National Child Care Staf ng Study, Center for the Study of Child Care Employment, Institute for Research on Labor and Employment, University of California, Berkeley, 2014, irle.berkeley.edu/cscce/ wp-content/uploads/2014/11/ReportFINAL.pdf.

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«Sheila Lirio Marcelo: Founder, Chairwoman & CEO,» Care.com, care.com/sheila-marcelo.

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Michael B. Farrell, «Care .com’s IPO Raises About $91m,» Boston Globe, January 24, 2014, bostonglobe.com/business/2014/01/24/care-com-raises-million-ipo/N5navjOBBhUWRM1y0p0IBL/story.html.

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Chris Deiterich, «Bright Horizons Blazes in Its Debut,» Wall Street Journal, January 25, 2013, online .wsj.com/news/articles/SB100014241278873235398045782639328 97208500.

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Aaron Glantz, «Multigenerational Housing Is a Real Estate Growth Niche,» New York Times, April 21, 2011, nytimes.com/2011/04/22/ us/22cncmultigenerational.html.

396

Patricia Leigh Brown, «Growing Old Together, in New Kind of Commune,» New York Times, February 27, 2006, nytimes.com/2006/02/27/national/ 27commune.html.

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«What Is Caring Across Generations?,» Caring Across Generations, caringacross.org/about-us.

398

«About FCA,» Family Caregiver Alliance, caregiver.org/about-fca.

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«About,» Caring Economy Campaign, caringeconomy.org.

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John Winthrop, «A Model of Christian Charity (1630),» Gilder Lehrman Institute of American History, gilderlehrman.org/sites/default/ les/inline-pdfs/A %20Model %20of %20Christian %20Charity.pdf.

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«Maternity Pay and Leave,» Gov.uk, gov .uk/maternity-pay-leave/pay.

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Gretchen Livingston, «Among 38 Nations, U.S. Is the 
Outlier When It Comes to Paid Parental Leave,» Pew Research Center, December 12, 2013, pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2013/12/12/among-38-nations-u-s-is-the-holdout-when-it-comes-to-offering-paid-parental-leave; Sarah Thompson, Robin Osborn, David Squires, and Miraya Jun, eds., «International Pro les of Health Care Systems, 2012,» Commonwealth Fund, November 2012, com-monwealthfund.org//media/Files/Publications/Fund%20Report/2012/Nov/1645_Squires_intl proleshlt_care_systems_2012.pdf. 
Як зазначалося раніше, Сполучені Штати — одна з небагатьох заможних країн, що немає загальної охорони здоров’я та оплачуваної декретної відпустки. Проте існує кілька країн, які надають також і декретну відпустку для чоловіків, деякі досить значну. Норвегія, Ірландія, Ісландія, Словенія, Швеція та Німеччина — усі ці країни надають татам 8 і більше тижнів оплачуваної декретної відпустки. А коли йдеться про догляд за літніми чи хронічно хворими людьми, у Данії до таких людей ставляться з пошаною. Згідно з Фондом Співдружності, узаконений догляд роками применшували через «свідомі політичні намагання», щоб дозволити людям залишитися в себе вдома, як цього бажала велика частина хронічно хворих людей. (Це також стосується і літніх людей у Сполучених Штатах). У Данії «домашній догляд» (hjemmesygepleje) повністю фінансується після медичного направлення. Постійна допомога на дому (hjemmehjælp) — безкоштовна, а тимчасовий догляд на дому відповідає розподілу витрат, якщо доходи перевищують DKK138,600 (US$23,776) для самотніх та DKK208,200 (US$35,715) — для подружніх пар.

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T. R. Reid, «Norway Pays Price for Family Values,» Washington Post, November 1, 1998, cited in Ann Crittenden, The Price of Motherhood: Why the Most Important Job in the World Is Still the Least Valued (New York: Henry Holt, 2002), p. 192.

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«A Family Affair: Intergenerational Social Mobility across OECD Countries,» OECD Economic Policy Reforms, Going for Growth, 2010, oecd.org/tax/public — nance/chapter %205 %20gfg %202010.pdf.

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Raj Chetty, Nathaniel Hendren, Patrick Kline, Emmanuel Saez, and Nick Turner, «Is the United States Still a Land of Opportunity? Recent Trends in Intergenerational Mobility,» American Economic Review Papers and Proceedings 104,
no. 5 (2014): 141—47; Miles Corak, «Social Mobility and Social Institutions in Comparison: Australia, Canada, the United Kingdom, the United States,» Sutton Trust/Carnegie Foundation Seminar on Social Mobi­lity, London, May 21—22, 2012, milescorak . les.wordpress.com/2012/05/social_mobility_summit_v3.pdf; Rana Foroohar, «What Ever Happened to Upward Mobility?,» Time, November 14, 2011, content.time.com/time/magazine/ article/0,9171,2098584,00.html; Fareed Zakaria, «The Downward Path of Upward Mobility,» Washington Post, November 9, 2011, washingtonpost.com/opinions/the-downward-path-of-upward-mobility/2011/11/09/gIQAegpS6M_story.html; Fareed Zakaria, «Social Immobility Erodes the American Dream,» Washington Post, August 14, 2013, washingtonpost.com/opinions/fareed-zakaria-social-immobility-erodes-american-dream/2013/08/14/c2fc6092-04fa-11e3-88d6-d5795fab4637_story.html.

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Raj Chetty, Nathaniel Hendren, Patrick Kline, and Emmanuel Saez, «Where Is the Land of Opportunity? The Geography of Intergenerational Mobility in the United States,» Quarterly Journal of Economics 129, no. 4 (2014): 1553—1623.

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у Claire Cain Miller, «Can Family Leave Policies Be Too Generous? It Seems So,» New York Times, August 10, 2014, nytimes.com/2014/08/10/upshot/can-family-leave-policies-be-too-generous-it-seems-so.html.

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Francine D. Blau and Lawrence M. Kahn, «Female Labor Supply: Why Is the US Falling Behind?,» Institute for the Study of Labor Discussion Paper No. 7140, January 2013, ftp.iza.org/dp7140.pdf. Блоу і Кан показують, що загальна кількість жінок серед робочої сили зменшилася в США через відсутність оплачуваних сімейних відпусток, ми, швидше за все, станемо менеджерами та професіоналами через подібний феномен. Вони приходять до висновку: «З одного боку, така політика сприятиме залученню робочої сили жінок, зорієнтованих на кар’єру (або жінок, які на тому життєвому етапі, коли вони б хотіли зменшити обов’язки перед ринком праці). З іншого боку, оплачувані батьківські відпустки та неповні робочі дні можуть заохотити жінок, які б в іншій ситуації мали б більшу прихильність до неповного робочого дня чи позиції нижчого рівня. Крім того, з боку роботодавця така політика може привести до того, що роботодавці стануть жертвами статистичної дискримінації проти жінок щодо роботи на вищих позиціях, якщо роботодавці не зможуть визначити, які саме жінки можуть скористатися цими можливостями, а які — ні».

409

Carol Gilligan, Joining the Resistance (Cambridge, UK: Polity Press, 2011), p. 25.

410

Christopher L. Eisgruber and Lawrence G. Sager, Religious Freedom and the Constitution (Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 2007), eBook, loc. 53 of 3816. Правознавці Ейсгрубер та Сагер ввели термін «рівна свобода», щоб обговорити дві ідеї, які вони вважали необхідними для релігійної рівності та свободи, одна з яких — концепт «рівного ставлення».

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«David Brooks, The Road to Character (New York: Random House, 2015), p. 6.