The Days of Abandonment

8

In the course of one of these sleep-filled mornings I was wakened suddenly as if by the prick of a needle. I thought it was time for the children, I checked the clock, it was early. I realized that what had pierced me was the sound of the cell phone. I answered angrily, in the peevish voice I now used with everyone. But it was Mario, and I immediately changed my tone. He said that he was calling on the cell phone because something was wrong with the regular phone, that he had tried many times and had heard only hissing sounds, distant conversations of strangers. I was moved by the sound of his voice, by its kindness, by his presence in the world somewhere. The first thing I said to him was:

“You mustn’t think that I put the glass in the pasta on purpose. It was an accident, I had broken a bottle.”

“Forget it,” he replied. “I’m the one who reacted badly.”

He told me that he had had to leave in a hurry on account of work, he had been in Denmark, a good but tiring trip. He asked if he could come in the evening to see the children, to get some books he needed, and especially his notes.

“Of course,” I said. “This is your house.”

In a flash, as soon as I hung up, the plan of showing him the precarious state of the apartment, of the children, of me, faded. I cleaned the house from top to bottom, I put it in order. I took a shower, I dried my hair, I washed it again because it hadn’t come out satisfactorily. I put on my makeup with care, I wore a light summer dress that he had given me and liked. I attended to my hands and feet, especially my feet, I was ashamed, they seemed rough. I took care of every detail. I even looked at my calendar, counted, and discovered with disappointment that I was about to get my period. I hoped it would be late.

When the children came home from school, they were speechless. Ilaria said:

“It’s all clean, even you. How pretty you look.”

But the signs of satisfaction ended there. They had grown used to living in disorder and the sudden return of the old order alarmed them. It was a long battle to persuade them to take a shower, to wash as if for a holiday. I said:

“Your father is coming tonight. We have to do everything we can so that he won’t go away again.”

Ilaria announced as if it were a threat:

“Then I’ll tell him about the bump.”

“Tell him whatever you like.”

Gianni said, with great emotion:

“I’ll tell him that since he’s been gone my homework has been full of mistakes and I’m doing badly in school.”

“Yes,” I said approvingly, “tell him everything. Tell him you need him, tell him that he has to choose between you and this new woman he has.”

In the evening I washed again and redid my makeup, but I was nervous, I kept yelling from the bathroom at the children who were playing and making a mess. I was more and more apprehensive, I thought: look, I have pimples on my chin and forehead, I’ve never been lucky in my life.

Then I had the idea of putting on a pair of earrings that had belonged to Mario’s grandmother, which were very dear to him; his mother, too, had worn them all her life. They were valuable; in fifteen years he had let me wear them only once, for his brother’s wedding, and even then he had been difficult. He was jealous of them not out of fear that I would lose them or that they would be stolen or because he considered them his exclusive property. I think, rather, he was afraid that seeing them on me would spoil some memories or fantasies of childhood and adolescence.

I decided to show him once and for all that I was the only possible incarnation of those fantasies. I gazed in the mirror and, though I seemed thin, and there were shadows around my eyes, and my complexion had a yellowish tint that blush couldn’t hide, I thought I looked beautiful or, to be more exact, I wanted at any cost to appear beautiful. I needed confidence. My skin was still smooth. It didn’t show my thirty-eight years. If I could conceal from myself the impression that the life had been drained out of me like blood and saliva and mucus from a patient during an operation, maybe I could deceive Mario as well.

But immediately I felt depressed. My eyelids were heavy, my back ached, I wanted to cry. I looked at my underpants, they were stained with blood. I pronounced an ugly obscenity in my dialect, and with such an angry snap in my voice that I was afraid the children had heard me. I washed again, changed. Finally the doorbell rang.

Right away I was annoyed, the master was acting like a stranger, he wasn’t using the keys to his own house, he wanted to underline the fact that he was only visiting. Otto, first of all, hurtled down the hall, leaping madly, sniffing breathlessly, barking enthusiastically in recognition. Then Gianni arrived. He opened the door and turned to stone as if at attention. Then, close to her brother, almost hiding behind him, but smiling, eyes bright, came Ilaria. I stood at the end of the hall, near the kitchen door.

Mario entered loaded with packages. I hadn’t seen him for exactly thirty-four days. He seemed younger, better cared for in his appearance, even more rested, and my stomach contracted so painfully that I felt I was about to faint. In his body, in his face, there was no trace of our absence. While I bore — as soon as his startled gaze touched me I was certain of it — all the signs of suffering, he could not hide those of well-being, perhaps of happiness.

“Children, leave your father alone,” I said in a falsely cheerful voice, when Ilaria and Gianni had stopped unwrapping the gifts and jumping on his neck and kissing him and fighting to get his attention. But they didn’t listen. I stayed in a corner, vexed, while Ilaria, primping, tried on the dress her father had brought her, and Gianni sent a remote-control car speeding down the hall while Otto followed, barking. Time seemed to be boiling over, flowing in sticky waves out of a pot onto the flame. I had to tolerate Ilaria telling in dark colors the story of the bump, and my failings, while Mario kissed her forehead, assuring her it was nothing, and Gianni exaggerating his school misadventures and reading aloud a theme that the teacher hadn’t appreciated to the father who praised him and soothed him. What a pathetic picture. Finally I couldn’t take it any longer. I more or less pushed the children rudely into their room, closed the door, threatening to punish them if they came out, and, after a big effort to regain a pleasing voice, an effort that failed miserably, exclaimed:

“Well. Did you enjoy yourself in Denmark? Did your lover go with you?”

He shook his head, curled his lip, replied in a low voice:

“If you’re going to act like that, I’ll take my things and leave right now.”

“I’m just asking how the trip was. Can’t I ask?”

“Not in that tone of voice.”

“No? What tone of voice is that? What tone should I have?”

“Of a civilized person.”

“Were you civil with me?”

“I’m in love.”

“I was, too. With you. But you’ve humiliated me and you continue to humiliate me.”

He lowered his gaze, he seemed sincerely distressed, and then I was moved, and suddenly I spoke with affection, I couldn’t help it. I told him that I understood his situation, I told him that I could imagine how confused he was; but I–I murmured with long, painful pauses — however I tried to find order, to understand, to wait patiently for the storm to pass, at times I gave in, at times I couldn’t manage it. Then, to offer proof of my good will, I took out of the drawer of the kitchen table the bundle of letters I had written to him and laid them carefully before him.

“See how hard I’ve worked,” I explained. “In there are my reasons and the effort I’m making to understand yours. Read.”

“Now?”

“If not, when?”

He unfolded the first sheet with a look of discouragement, scanned a few lines, looked at me.

“I’ll read them at home.”

“At whose home?”

“Stop it, Olga. Give me time, please, don’t think it’s easy for me.”

“Certainly it’s more difficult for me.”

“It’s not true. I feel like I’m falling. I’m afraid of the hours, the minutes…”

I don’t know exactly what he said. If I have to be honest, I think that he mentioned only the fact that, when you live with someone, sleep in the same bed, the body of the other becomes like a clock, “a meter,” he said — he used just that expression—“a meter of life, which runs along leaving a wake of anguish.” But I had the impression that he wanted to say something else, certainly I understood more than what he actually said, and with an increasing, calculated vulgarity that first he tried to repress and which then silenced him, I hissed:

“You mean that I brought you anguish? You mean that sleeping with me you felt yourself growing old? You measured death by my ass, by how once it was firm and what it is now? Is that what you mean?”

“The children are there…”

“Here, there… and where am I? Where are you putting me? I want to know! If you feel distress, how do you think I feel distress? Read, read my letters! I can’t get to the bottom of it! I can’t understand what happened to us!”

He looked at the letters with revulsion.

“If you make an obsession of it you’ll never understand.”

“Oh? And how should I behave in order for it not to become an obsession?”

“You should distract yourself.”

I felt an abrupt twisting inside, a mad desire to know if he might at least become jealous, if he still cared about possession of my body, if he could accept the intrusion of someone else.

“Of course I’m distracting myself,” I said, assuming a smug tone. “Don’t think I’m just waiting around here. I’m writing, I’m trying to understand, tormenting myself. But I’m doing it for myself, for the children, certainly not to please you. Hardly. Have you looked around? Have you seen how well the three of us are doing? And have you seen me?”

I stuck out my chest, I made the earrings swing, presenting to him ironically first one profile, then the other.

“You look well,” he said without conviction.

“Well, my ass. I’m extremely well. Ask our neighbor, ask Carrano how I am.”

“The performer?”

“The musician.”

“Are you seeing him?” he asked indifferently.

I laughed, a kind of sob.

“Yes, let’s say I’m seeing him. I’m seeing him exactly the way you’re seeing your lover.”

“Why him? He’s a man I don’t like.”

“I’m the one who has to screw him, not you.”

He brought his hands to his face, rubbed it thoroughly, then murmured:

“Do you do it even in front of the children?”

I smiled.

“Fuck?”

“Speak like that.”

I lost control, and began to shout:

“Speak like what? I don’t give a shit about prissiness. You wounded me, you are destroying me, and I’m supposed to speak like a good, well-brought-up wife? Fuck you! What words am I supposed to use for what you’ve done to me, for what you’re doing to me? What words should I use for what you’re doing with that woman! Let’s talk about it! Do you lick her cunt? Do you stick it in her ass? Do you do all the things you never did with me? Tell me! Because I see you! With these eyes I see everything you do together, I see it a hundred thousand times, I see it night and day, eyes open and eyes closed! However, in order not to disturb the gentleman, not to disturb his children, I’m supposed to use clean language, I’m supposed to be refined, I’m supposed to be elegant! Get out of here! Get out, you shit!”

He got up immediately, hurried into his study, put books and notebooks in a bag, stopped for a moment as if bewitched by his computer, took a case with some diskettes, other stuff from the drawers.

I took a breath, ran after him. I had in mind a million recriminations. I wanted to cry: don’t touch anything; they are things you worked on while I was there, I was taking care of you, I was doing the shopping, the cooking, it’s time that belongs to me in a way, leave everything there. But now I was frightened of the consequences of every word I had uttered, of those that I could utter, I was afraid I had disgusted him, that he would go away for good.

“Mario, I’m sorry, come back, let’s talk…Mario! It’s just that I’m upset…”

He went to the door, pushing me back, he opened it, he said:

“I have to go. But I’ll be back, don’t worry. I’ll be back for the children.”

He was about to go out when he stopped and said:

“Don’t wear those earrings anymore. They don’t suit you.”

Then he disappeared without closing the door.

I pushed the door hard, it was an old door, so loose on its hinges that it hit the jamb and swung back, opening again. So I kicked it furiously until it closed. Then I ran to the balcony while the dog, worried, grumbled beside me. I waited for Mario to appear in the street, I cried desperately:

“Tell me where you live, or at least leave me a phone number! What do I do if I need you, if the children are ill…”

He didn’t even raise his head. I shouted at him, beside myself:

“I want to know the name of that whore, you’ve got to tell me… I want to know if she’s pretty, I want to know how old she is…”

Mario got in the car, started the engine. The car disappeared behind the foliage in the middle of the little square, reappeared, disappeared again.

“Mamma,” Gianni called.